does this mean i am bi

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Registered: 09-28-2004
does this mean i am bi
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:24am
If during sex and masturbation the only way you can have an orgasm is if you are thinking about women, what could that mean?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 11:43am
No, of course not UNLESS you've had the urge to act on these fantasies. Our fantasies are just that, fantasies. Many women fantasize about being raped, for example. Now, no woman in her right mind would REALLY want to experience such a violent act, would she? What really turns her is the feeling of "being taken" or feeling helpless.

Who knows why certain images become sexualized in our minds but most of our fantasies become ingrained in our sexual response at a very early age.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Mon, 10-04-2004 - 3:08pm
Hi pixie!

That is a very debatable subject in my opinion. There are those out there who would say YES because of their experience, and there are those with experience also who would say NO. Those who do not experience this really couldn't give you an answer, but no one can anyway as much as YOU yourself can.

The only thing I can think of that would make you bi is if you have bi desires whether you are approaching orgasm or not. If its only during orgasm, my inexperienced self says "big deal" I guess, but to have bi desires outside of oragasm or actual sex is something to ponder I would guess.

Its the guessing game that sorta makes this debatable in my opinion. Perhaps the Lebian Issues message board could help ya:

Bisexual Issues

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlbisex

Lesbian Issues

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rllesbian

I'd doubt very much if they didn't get frequented by questions like this one. Hope this helps. :)

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