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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 6:58pm
hello out there i have a question that i'd appriciate answered. My boyfriend and I have recently been discussing anal sex, he's interested to try it because he never has before, i'd be willing to give it a shot but i'd just like to knwo abit more about it first! any pointers? also i was wondering is it common practice to have ones behind waxed beforehand? thank you thank you
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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Tue, 10-05-2004 - 1:27am
I think the 3 most important things to consider about anal sex (or any act for the first time): your own interest in this act, NOT just your BF's; lubrication, which is essential for your own comfort and protection and taking it all VERY slowly, perhaps starting with digital stimulation first! Being relaxed (and very aroused) is important to prevent pain and tearing of tender tissues.

And it's important to remember, bacteria can be spread this way so no jumping from anal to vaginal. He should wear a condom to prevent bacteria from working it's way into his urethra and causing an infection. It doesn't matter if you use a laxative, etc. to clean things out either since the bacteria will still be there.

I would suggest setting some ground rules before you get started. YOU need to be in charge of this one. He needs to understand that if you feel any discomfort, pain or anxiety about anything at all, he will stop. And IF you don't enjoy it after giving it a shot, then he shouldn't pressure you into doing it again.

It's a personal decision to wax or shave any area though. It's certainly not necessary.




Edited 10/5/2004 1:51 am ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Registered: 07-22-2004
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Tue, 10-05-2004 - 5:55pm
Hi queen.

I liked what Kat has shared so far, and I think you're in for some more good advice too. In the meantime, here's a couple of pretty nifty links for you. I strongly suggest you take a look at these. Hope you find the help you're looking for.

5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered

http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/experts_by_month/articles/0,,413030_443231,00.html

6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex

http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/sexpro/articles/0,,413030_272744,00.html

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