One-Night Stand?

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Registered: 04-25-2004
One-Night Stand?
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 3:09pm
Wed. night, I slept w/ my best guy friend of 10 yrs. He was my very first bf and everyone always says that we will end up together but we never saw it. He lives in a differnet town than me and we don't see each other often, but lately when we do stuff happens.

We've been talking on the phone a lot too. I think that he really likes me but can't get him to talk about it. He says that it's too soon to say and tht it's hard to get stuff like that off of your chest. However, he does say I make him feel something that nobody else does.

Like I was saying, we slept together and it wasn't very great but I'm assuming that's because it's the first time. The next day, we went out to eat and to the movies together and we were holding hands and kissing and all of that. We were still very comfortable together and goofing off as always, but it seemed a little more awkward than usual. He didn't seem sad to see me go though. It was almost like a brush off as I was leaving. He said he would call me when he got into our home town for the weekend and I'm worried that he won't.

Do you all think that this is going to be just a one-night stand? I've never had one myself. I know he hasn't either b/c he was a virgin.

Please help!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 4:39pm
There's always a risk of ruining a friendship when you become intimate. That changes everything. And from what you've shared, he sounds confused and unsure of how he feels about becoming sexual with you.

But IF he doesn't call you this weekend though, then take that for what it is and don't sit around waiting on him. When a guy cares enough, he makes you a priority and keeps his promises.