Help!!!!!!!!! I need some tips....
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Help!!!!!!!!! I need some tips....
| Sat, 10-09-2004 - 7:10am |
Hi! my man just told me that he wants me to talk dirty in bed, i'm a little bit shy in doing that, can you give me some tips to do it... also, he told me that he wants to cum in my face, does your man loves you if he wants to do that?

If you want to talk dirty, just say what's on your mind, what you're feeling, etc. but just add words to it that would get this post deleted if I put them down here.
As far as a facial, no, my husband is not into facials, never was and neither am I.
You've got to say whats on your mind, but more importantly, you should stick with what you like saying, and not what you he wants to hear. Make sense?
I don't think you need to worry too much at first about the "dirty" side of the talk. Many men actually use that term when what they REALLY want is simply more from you. The "you like that, don't you!" or the "you want it, don't you!" type of aggressive growls from you are the type that many men out there have reported liking a lot.
I think the aggressive talk goes VERY hand in hand with aggressive actions on your part during lovemaking. My wife for example sometimes pins my wrists down while she's on top or she'll dictate with her body what she wants more of at times too. For many of us guys, that type of "I want you and I'm gonna get you!" type of behavior is pretty exciting and goes perfectly well with the aggressive or dirty talk too.
Make sure you say what your truly feel like saying though, cause faking your words can be pretty cheesy as they say and can unfortunately be an effective turn-off for many guys just like it can for many women when guys try it too.
Also, Tish is right about making sure you agree to something you want. If you don't mind and simply enjoy doing something to help fulfil your gent's secret fantasy that he's now revealing to you, then congrats to you both, LOL, and remember to enjoy enjoy enjoy. If things aren't perfect when trying something new, then THATS the fun of being with each other: learning along the way.
Hope the replies help. Let us know.
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