Curiousity question for the guys....

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Curiousity question for the guys....
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:01pm
Very curious to understand: why does it matter if a woman swallows?

It seems that guys like it so much (I know mine does, and from reading various posts here seems it is common). I don't mind doing it from time to time, but I just don't understand why having him come in my mouth is a different feeling for him, than him doing it and me swallowing?..

Anyone can explain this?

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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 12:50pm
Well, not ALL men do care if their partner swallows . My DH could care less about it and when asked, he doesn't understand the appeal either. After all, it's after the fact. But many men say it's the satisfaction of knowing his partner swallowed, not that it adds any physical pleasure to the act.
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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 1:14pm

I agree with Kat, there are many guys just happy to get oral sex and the swallowing doesn't matter to them.


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Sat, 10-09-2004 - 4:06pm
Hi baci.

For the men out there who actually DO enjoy it, I've read from many different message boards across the net that its all psychological. It does absolutely NOTHING to increase the physical pleasure obviously.

For the purpose of comparing only, many have described it as the same as a woman hearing "I love you" during lovemaking, or receiving more and more gazing eye-contact, or anything else for that matter that does 'nothing' to add to the physical pleasure but does for many actually add to the feeling of being that much more accepted.

Sounds crazy at first, but its true for many of those guys.

We all have different needs and even different ways of feeling accepted. Some ways just seem more intense to us individually than other ways do. Of course its always debatable and to some even laughable when discussing whether or not this way or that way is ridiculous or more on the normal side, which really isn't needed, lol, but over and over and over and over again...

...we'll always end back up to the ol' "to each his/her own" clause anyway.

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Sun, 10-10-2004 - 8:53am
There are a couple of pluses for me if my partner swallows. One is definitely emotional. If she swallows, it seems like more acceptance of me as a male. Also,part of me is still inside her. It's also preferable for me to cum inside a woman rather than wear a condom. She still carries part of me inside for awhile after the act is done.

I also have a physical plus. The act is carried out to completion, so my (gentle) thrusting into her mouth doesn't have to be stopped. It's similar to pulling out of a vagina before ejaculating...the pleasure and action is interrupted. She could, of course, go to the bathroom and spit it out, but there's a break in the after sex cuddling.

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Sun, 10-10-2004 - 10:26pm

I've heard one guy tell me its a great turn on!

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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 9:17am
My reasons why swallowing is so hot:

- it definitly feels better (physical)

- my smile lasts a couple of days longer when my wife swallows (mental)

- a lot of men are proud of their sperm (strange discription, not exactly the right words, hard thing to describe) and appreciate when their partner accepts it completely

- my wife is proud to be a swallower not a spitter and I think that is cool

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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 11:43am

Hi baci:


Swallowing ejaculate simular to ACCEPTING the guy.

 

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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 2:08pm
" I tasted my own ejaculate, it tasted terrible. My wife has never tasted my ejaculate."

Well, that doesn't mean that SHE would think so though.

But I think that's the ultimate in consideration and love to think of your wife's overall experience, too, and not just expect her to choke it down so you can feel fulfilled.


Edited 10/11/2004 3:40 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001

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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 3:43pm
The main reason I like it is that is feels better not having to take it out and you a hand on it to finish. Also, the fact that it is a little "taboo" makes it hotter too.
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Tue, 10-12-2004 - 1:22am
Wait a minute...who's talking about interrupting a man's pleasure from oral to finish him by hand? We're talking about swallowing. There's a difference.

I have no problem with allowing my DH to finish in my mouth but he could care less what I do with it after the fact, so I spit because it's my preference.

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