Afraid to "Make Love"

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Registered: 03-06-2004
Afraid to "Make Love"
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Sun, 01-16-2005 - 7:26pm

My Boyfriend and I are very much in love.

Love
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 12:07am

So, what happened to you as a child that makes you agressive sexually, and unable to have feelings? Something did......and until you rid yourself of those demons....it's not going to happen.

Most people that have sexual problems had some sort of sexual abuse in their childhood, and without professional therapy, they don't get over it, and will never have a sucessful sexual relationship.

Check into getting some professional help.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 9:39am

I agree with GTM Love. You don't need help with sex, you need help with intimacy and opening up.

This is a little esoteric, but have you considered a traditional Yoga program? Yoga is a very opening experience and it's emotionally safe.

Good luck.
Scott.