He's just a wierdo......

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Registered: 09-21-2004
He's just a wierdo......
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Wed, 01-19-2005 - 2:27pm
Don't know whether to laugh or take offense to this. Ok, my new bf has this thing with water and being clean. I mean, he takes 2-3 showers every day. Plus he's told me he just likes water so he'll even takes baths on occasion. No big deal, but here's my gripe. After we have sex, he either jumps in the shower for a few min's to "clean up", or he'll wash off in the sink. He can't ever just cuddle up and go to sleep. I mean, yeah, afterwards I go use the bathroom, but I don't shower till the morning. Oh, and he won't do morning sex either cause he hasn't showered or brushed his teeth. Hey, everyone's got their quirks, but what's with that????
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Wed, 01-19-2005 - 8:49pm

I would say he is a super clean freak, does not like sex fluids


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Registered: 01-03-2004
Thu, 01-20-2005 - 1:20am
A little case of OCD sounds like
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Thu, 01-20-2005 - 1:27am
Yes, sounds like a "germaphobe", alright. IF this rigidity begins to cause problems in your relationship or it gets worse, he will need to talk with a dr. I know people with OCD and the obsessive behavior and thoughts can be miserable to live with, both for the sufferer, as well as the loved ones. Medications can help immensely.