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Pressure?
| Sat, 01-29-2005 - 4:53pm |
Hi! New here and looking for some education! :) *L* Anyway...Last night was the first time my hubby and I engaged in anal sex with one another...It was my first time ever, so I was a little nervous..It's taken me 8 months to even consider it..Last night, hubby and I were in the shower and he was "poking" and prodding me..I was feeling it..It was all good. Then he asked if I wanted to get out of the shower..Sure! Well, I was playing with him, getting him all revved up and he was playing with me...And then...He lubed up..We were just taking it one inch at a time when holy crap! He's in! I sorta freaked out and was like, "Out!" But, I eased back into itThere was so much damn pressure, though!..My question is...Is there supposed to be that much pressure and does it subside after you do it again and again?

Pressure? Or pain? I'm not a fan of Anal Sex, but I've done it a few times, and I wasn't aware of any pressure. There is some pain when the penis pushes thru the anal sphincter, but after that, it's all good if you don't mind the mess. It's possible your rectum was full....that might cause pressure I guess.
As for "getting used to it".....your anus is just like your vagina. When you start it's tight, no matter if it's your first time or your 100th time. It has to be relaxed every time, just like your vagina. The best way is to start with a finger, then two, then three, to get it relaxed...but no matter what, it will hurt a little, at least it did for me.