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I think there is a problem......
| Tue, 02-15-2005 - 11:17am |
I am not exactly sure what is going on, but I recently started dating somebody. We have slept to togther 2 times. Both times, he was able to maintain an erection for, what seemed like an eternity, but I don't think he ever ejaculated. The first time he said that he was too excited and ejaculated within the first 5 minutes, but is it even possible to maintain an erection after ejaculation?

Hi Phili
Yes it can happen, If we (my love and I) have had a long session and I have already orgasm'd 3-4 times I stay hard even although I know for a fact it's not going to happen a 5th time.
We only occassionally have sessions like that as she aches too much after.
If I keep the level of stimulation up either manually while playing or internally so to speak with my love, I rarely losse my full erection so long as that stimulation is there, my love quite likes that state of play as I don't hit her cirvex so often and I/we can usually get off again within a short time - 10mins sometimes less for me, and I have been known to fake it just to get to finish a session, just don't tell my love lol.
Wish we had some smilie emoticons here to use in the text lol
cheers Jacobiteone
:o)
Yes, that can happen. It happens to my hubby now and then, but not too often.
Leticia
What's "going on" is that it's a new relationship, and he's nervous. Believe it or not, many men are just as nervous as many women in a new situation, and strange things happen. Some men lose their erections. Some men never can reach climax. Some men have no problems. All men are different.
If he's not complaining, then don't worry about it. If he IS complaining, there's nothing you can do about it anyway. That's up to him.
Give it some time......the first few times for any new partners are not the greatest. It takes time to get comfortable, and relax completely.
PS: If he takes an "eternity", and you get tired or sore, you can always tell him to stop, and offer to finish him orally or manually.
Thanks Tish
Looks like a lot of work for what it is just like text spk when typing
cheers Jacobiteone
When I was in my 20's I could ejaculate and stay hard and ejaculate again a few minutes later. Ahhh...those were the days!
John
Edited 2/16/2005 5:36 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Thanks Katmandoo
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cheers Jacobiteone