a TAD sketchy...

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Registered: 11-21-2004
a TAD sketchy...
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Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:05pm

My bf and I can only have sex when his family is out and when everybody is out at my house. There's almost always people at my house so we wait until Fridays when I'm off of school and he's off and I go over his house and we have our fun.

We haven't been able to really do anything for about 2 1/2 weeks now and I'm beginning to really sketch. I was at the point last night where I just wanted to do it right there on the sofa at my house while people were sleeping!!! He gets paranoid about doing it when people are in the house and I sort of do but no as much. It's just sucks because we have no privacy and our parents are really tight about sleepovers so we can't even just SLEEP beside each other. It's becoming really frustrating to have someone around you for a really long time just being beside each other... your kissing and touching and getting each other going but you can't DO anything. I'm not a sex nymph but you know when you really get in that mood and it just builds up for so long..it gets very irritating.

I'm kinda frustrated right now. GRRR!!!!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:27pm
Rent a motel room, that's what we used to do when we were dating and we couldn't get privacy.

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Registered: 11-21-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:32pm
Yeah I thought of that. And I also thought of how disgusting they could be. We're university students though, its not financially convenient for us to spend money on hotels.
But believe me..I've thought of everything. We both have. Now we're just sketchy and frustrated lol.
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Registered: 12-23-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:36pm
University students, huh. Why not go find an empty building on campus? College campuses have all kinds of great places to do it. When I was in college I had a girlfriend who loved to get it on in the student center. Libraries are good too. Good luck!
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 7:14pm
One of my friends did it in a University squash court
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Tue, 02-15-2005 - 11:35pm
We often had to book a motel when we were in your situation. Yes, motels cost money but sometimes it's just got to be done - even when you're a poor student. How about sacrificing some of the weekend's entertainment/drinking money each week and doing it every couple or three weeks?
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Registered: 01-10-2005
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 5:20pm

Heh, I remember doing it all over campus!

Be creative and keep a lookout for possible places.

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Registered: 10-07-2004
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 5:34pm
Do all of your friends live at home or do any live in the dorms or have their own apartments? You could always bribe/convince one of your friends that you need to borrow their private space for a little while. Other than that its either get over the paranoia and just do it (maybe in the garage? back yard? car in the driveway?) or suffer or get an apartment.....
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Registered: 05-01-2003
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 5:35pm
A few years ago when I had nowhere to go privately with the man I was seeing at the time, I borrowed an open-minded friend's guestroom. We had a key to her home, she would tell me when she was going to be out, and we would sneak in and make love like a couple of hungry bunnies. I have done the same for other women who are in the same fix since then. Happy hunting! Elaine
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 8:38pm
Df used to work in the college library. He has got some stories ....

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