Best View

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Best View
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Thu, 02-17-2005 - 4:58pm

Here's a peculiar one. My GF is of the very strong opinion that a woman's private parts look best from behind. She told me this during one of our first encounters, and then again Friday night when she said, "Well, am I right? Doesn't my _____ look best from behind?"

Of course I agreed, but to be honest I haven't really given it much thought. As far as I can tell she has only experienced this view watching porn and going to a strip club twice with her ex-husband. (Hated for the first, loved the second.) She doesn't appear to have any bisexual tendencies, so I'm not really sure of the thought process that resulted in this statement.

Anyway, what does everyone else think? Look best from behind? If not, what's the best angle?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jensman1021
Thu, 02-17-2005 - 5:03pm
Don't know why it makes any difference since it's just a matter of opinion anyway. My DH thinks it looks best naked from any angle he can get it! LOL!


Edited 2/17/2005 5:04 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Thu, 02-17-2005 - 5:55pm

Well, in the old days, one could only guess that an actual butt would look best from behind...but what do I know. LOL!!

Hmmm...never thought of it that way, but sounds kinda fun to wait for the interesting responses to it, LOL! This could be a REALLY interesting thread with THIS crowd in here. ;D

Also, YES I too think its strange that she'd even bother to raise that issue in the first place. Don't know WHAT to tell ya there...strange indeed.

 

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Registered: 05-18-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Thu, 02-17-2005 - 6:41pm

I have no idea what the best view is LOL! DH thinks from behind is the best view, but really any angle is good :) I don't really care how I look when I am having sex, and am wondering if she has issues about her body?

Leticia

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 12:11am

The best view, or angle, is the one that YOU like best. She has her opinion, but it's hers, not yours. Maybe she needs to understand that! You said she loved the strip clubs, and maybe that's what turned her ex on.....but that's HIS thing, not yours. She needs to get over herself.

Who cares, do you study poses, or do you enjoy being up close and personal?

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 1:41am
LOL! What a funny idea! After having given it about 25 seconds of thought, I've decided that my personal preference isn't so much from what angle, but at what stage of arousal. There is nothing sexier than a close-up view of an aroused and very wet vagina and labia - whatever the angle!
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 2:32am
Oh, the "close-up" within reach angle. I think wifey would agree. Why didn't I think of that? ;)

 

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Registered: 12-21-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 5:55am
I think the view is great from any position but I would have to say the behind view is the best but that is just me. Do the male genitals look different from front to back?
I would never have thought to look since I can only see them from the front!!
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Registered: 11-15-2003
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 10:09am

Hi Jensman,

I would agree with your gf, that too is my favorite angle view (my personal favorite position, from a selfish standpoint is reverse cowgirl just because I enjoy the view).

You may have your opinions on angles, best views, etc. etc., but have you considered what she was trying to express to you? She was expressing that she was particularly proud of that view of herself and thinking that that view turned you on excited her all th more. Go with it! She is asking to be appreciated and we all need that. You have a wonderful opportunity to help your gf feel even more sexy...take the opportunity...it's a win-win proposition.

Peace.
Scott.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 10:37am
I just asked Dh this, his reply was, "naked at

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Registered: 09-20-2004
In reply to: jensman1021
Fri, 02-18-2005 - 11:35am
Well personally it doesn't take much of a glimpse of my love nekkid to get me going
but close enought to smell that alluring auroma or taste that sweet taste is obviously best lol
cheers Jacobiteone

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