Toys seen, and now questions

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Registered: 12-06-2001
Toys seen, and now questions
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 12:33pm

Since I'm finally rediscovering my sensual and sexual side, I made a visit to an adult store (and unlike past visits where I dashed in and then out -- I actually took the time to look around!), and although most of the items I know how they're used and what they're for, I'm curious why you would use a butt plug.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-03-2005 - 3:26pm
Well, I've never used the butt plugs or pearls myself but I know that both are used for anal stimulation. The pearls are inserted and then pulled out slowly. Many people, male and female, enjoy anal stimulation.
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 3:33pm

LOL!

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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 4:06pm

Butt Plugs are used for a variety of reason. Like said earlier one reason is for pleasure. a second reason some dominants have their submissives wear them as part of their training. Others us them in preparation for anal sex. They generally start off with a small one and move up to larger ones,the idea is to gradually increase the size so as not to harm the partner in this area. Either by way of the real thing or a dildo. They even have inflatable buttplugs which are used for the reason of preparing either a large real or a large toy. I use the pump up to prepare for our large strap on dildo.

The beads actually come in several sizes small to very large. They are generally used to heighten the orgasm. As one is having an orgasm they are pulled out and are said to make them more intense.

You ask a very good questions. If you any others do not be afraid to ask.

Good luck on your quest.

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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 4:07pm
My blushing is no reflection on my DH at all. Butt plugs, etc. aren't something either of us feel the need to explore.
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 6:15pm

Butt Plugs, as another poster mentioned, is usually for dom/sub relationships. It is a tremendous visual for the dom as the sub is fullfilling both sides' desires. Sometimes they can be a form of punishment for some subs, depending on the size and the duration they are to wear them. I very much enjoy (make that love) plugs. Wearing a plug during intercourse and spanking is a huge turn on for me. Makes for very intense orgasms. But then again, I almost have to have the anal play every time, not everybody does. I don't like the beads as much, but do entertain with them as they are another great visual for men and women alike.