that time of the month....

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Registered: 11-18-2004
that time of the month....
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Sat, 03-12-2005 - 9:47am

If i have sex with my bf during the 3rd day of my period and we don't use a condom, is it 'safe.' (not on the pill)

are guys ok with intercourse during a woman's period? personally, i think i would be stressing out most of the time that i may 'spurt' too much. but if he's ok with it and stuff, i wouldn't stressed at all.

(I want to suggest this to my bf on monday (i just started my period today) but i don't want him to grossed out or whatever.)

-sammy

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:03am

No, it's not safe unless you know exactly when you ovulate and what your most fertile times are.


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Registered: 11-18-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:11am

Thanks Tish!!!

-sammy

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 10:18am

There is NEVER a "safe" time of the month. If you don't want to get pregnant, then use a condom, or better yet, get on some form of b/c, and then you won't have to worry.

As for whether he'd be "grossed" out......if you don't know, then I guess you have to ask him. If you want to do it just because you think it's "safe", don't.

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Registered: 09-20-2004
Sat, 03-12-2005 - 12:00pm

Hi Sammy

Like Tish and other posters said you need to take precaution's all the time or be prepared for the consequences.

Every guy and girl is different,
My love is much more frisky at that time so we leave a tampon in for oral sex and slip some red towels under her sweet ass for penetratitive sex.

But most of the guy's I know are grossed out by it - their loss
cheers Jacobiteone

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 10:17am
I'm going to back Tish up on this one. DH and I learned about fertile times and non-fertile times. I always just assumed that I was fertile two weeks before my period and once my period was due to start, I was home free and didn't have to worry....So, when DH and I had sex a couple days before my period was due to start(2 days exactly), I ended up conceiving...I wouldn't change it for the world, but if you're not ready for motherhood, then I wouldn't gamble. Wait until you're off your period and for heaven's sake, use a condom. Unless you know when you ovulate and when you don't, you're just playing Russian Roulette.