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make love or just.............
| Mon, 03-14-2005 - 3:28pm |
When my DW and I first started dating, she said something to me that made me think... she said "You know sometimes you want to make love, and some times you just what to F..."
Im guessing sometimes some women want to leave emotion out of it and just have raw sex...Comments??
Im guessing sometimes some women want to leave emotion out of it and just have raw sex...Comments??

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I can't ever just leave emotion out of it. To me, sex and emotion are irrevocably intertwined.
However, there are times when we just screw. As opposed to the times we make love. I prefer a nice blend of the two ... if I had to put it into quantitative terms, I'd say maybe 30/70? or 20/80? (with the higher being making love).
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
Yes, there are times I want the emotional, sweet, lovey dovey making love and sometimes just the raw sex, give it to me good.
agreeing with Yarn Lover.
Some people use "making love" as a euphamism for all sex. Others use it when there is strong emotional thing that happens during sex.
I don't really know what "making love" means, so I can't answer the question.
i like both, and engage in both. we're LDR, so when we first see each other - it's pretty much sex. we're both dying for it so we do it quickly and that's that. if we drink and play some drinking games (just the 2 of us)...add stripping in there etc, we basically have raw sex, and talk dirty, and it's fun - it's a part of us that doesn't come out often. but then there's times where it's truly making love - and there's a huge emotional attraction. most of the time i'd say we're somewhere in the middle of raw sex and making love. either way i love all levels, and it's fun to spice it up and go between the 2 extremes
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I think Mrs. Para & I like the way savcal put it, a nice blend between the two, even if its not the same each time...that aside from solo sex of course.
Not really sure we could dive in together without having SOME emotion for one another, but thats just us. :)
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And then making love for us is the slow, sensual, take our time, let's gaze longingly into eachother's eyes kind of sex...
It depends on how you interpret it..
Right now, I've got a stew to make! Ta!
I've read a couple of posts about eye contact during sex.
I just can't go there. It makes me feel all icky inside. I'm eternally grateful that my DH has never tried it with me because I'd hate to let him down if it was important to him.
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