make love or just.............

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make love or just.............
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 3:28pm
When my DW and I first started dating, she said something to me that made me think... she said "You know sometimes you want to make love, and some times you just what to F..."
Im guessing sometimes some women want to leave emotion out of it and just have raw sex...Comments??

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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 4:26pm
Sure, I like to get nasty and physical without all the romance, etc. from time to time. And I love making love, too. I don't think women are any different than men in that regard.
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 5:11pm
I'm not really sure how to answer that. I prefer raw sex. I just don't really link emotion with sex. The closest I can say is I like when it is light hearted and fun, but I wouldn't say I like romantic sex, if that's what you mean by making love. Different people have different ideas of what making love is, so I never know how to answer that :)
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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 6:41pm

I can't ever just leave emotion out of it. To me, sex and emotion are irrevocably intertwined.


However, there are times when we just screw. As opposed to the times we make love. I prefer a nice blend of the two ... if I had to put it into quantitative terms, I'd say maybe 30/70? or 20/80? (with the higher being making love).


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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 7:47pm

Yes, there are times I want the emotional, sweet, lovey dovey making love and sometimes just the raw sex, give it to me good.


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Mon, 03-14-2005 - 10:36pm

agreeing with Yarn Lover.

Some people use "making love" as a euphamism for all sex. Others use it when there is strong emotional thing that happens during sex.

I don't really know what "making love" means, so I can't answer the question.

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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 9:12am
I love both equally. I consider it making love when there's a lot of deep eye contact, I love you's, and an overall sensualism of the session. Sometimes we start out making love and end in raw sex, and sometimes we switch back and forth. DH gets extremely turned on when he gives me what he calls "A baby oil massage." He gets my body all slicked up while we're both naked. I get a long body massage with some special treatment. ;-) He makes love to me during those sessions(although some end up crazy and anything but sensual.) tee hee
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Tue, 03-15-2005 - 10:27am

i like both, and engage in both. we're LDR, so when we first see each other - it's pretty much sex. we're both dying for it so we do it quickly and that's that. if we drink and play some drinking games (just the 2 of us)...add stripping in there etc, we basically have raw sex, and talk dirty, and it's fun - it's a part of us that doesn't come out often. but then there's times where it's truly making love - and there's a huge emotional attraction. most of the time i'd say we're somewhere in the middle of raw sex and making love. either way i love all levels, and it's fun to spice it up and go between the 2 extremes

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Thu, 03-17-2005 - 2:49pm

I think Mrs. Para & I like the way savcal put it, a nice blend between the two, even if its not the same each time...that aside from solo sex of course.

Not really sure we could dive in together without having SOME emotion for one another, but thats just us. :)

 

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Thu, 03-17-2005 - 3:36pm
There's still emotion when you f%$#, at least for DH and I...I think everyone's f%$# is different from the next...DH and I's meaning for f#$% is the kinky kind that would make your grandmother blush..The hurried, rapid, kinky kind of sex that makes ya wanna roll over and die...
And then making love for us is the slow, sensual, take our time, let's gaze longingly into eachother's eyes kind of sex...
It depends on how you interpret it..
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Fri, 03-18-2005 - 2:57am

I've read a couple of posts about eye contact during sex.

I just can't go there. It makes me feel all icky inside. I'm eternally grateful that my DH has never tried it with me because I'd hate to let him down if it was important to him.

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