I feel like I ate poo

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Registered: 04-14-2004
I feel like I ate poo
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Thu, 03-17-2005 - 6:07pm

My SO and I were having hot sex this morning and usually he likes to orgasm by doing anal. For some reason he couldn't release and I was so hot for him that without thinking I pulled it out and turned around to do oral on him. He finished pretty quick after that but wouldn't kiss me and said I was the nastiest girl he'd ever seen.

He said calling me nasty was a compliment, but after thinking about what I did, he's right. That WAS nasty and I feel dirty. I've had lots of wild experiences but putting my mouth on him when it was deep in my anus makes me feel a little ashamed.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 6:12pm

Don't feel ashamed.

Just brush carefully and use some mouthwash! LOL!

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 2:23am

Personally, I think you're in the right to feel uneasy in this situation. He's luckier than he be to have someone like you who wanted to please him even in this manner, HOWEVER...

...thats NOT okay at all for him to "compliment" you in that fashion when he himself refuses to kiss you...I just don't have any personal approval for that at all, even if it was something 'you' initiated anyway.

How you plan to handle it from there is up to you. Not sure what you were looking for out of the replies here other than people's opinion about it I'm guessing. Obviously a good idea to peacefully let him know that you REALLY don't like being viewed as "nasty" at all, even if he meant it as "kinky" in a complimentary way, and that you'd rather be viewed as just loving him...

...AND that you won't be doing that act like that again, since it was too for him to even kiss you.

Again, how you handle it is up to you.

 

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 6:10am

Hi dnkysho:


You should not be ashamed or feel dirty.

 

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 9:02am

Sounds like you had a good time and he had a good time. If it really bothered you, you could mention it to him. But he obviously loves you and appreciates you. The 'nasty" comment sounds like a term of appreciation :0).

Peace.
Scott.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Fri, 03-18-2005 - 4:04pm
I wouldnt give it a second thought. Perhaps not the most sanitary thing to do, but I've unwittingly done it myself, more than once even, although never with that being my goal. If you didn't enjoy it, just be careful next time.
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Fri, 03-18-2005 - 4:56pm
From a male perspective.. makes me prety hot. I would never had called you nasty... I would have just said WOW...Thank you.
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Registered: 04-25-2005
Sun, 05-01-2005 - 12:57pm

Do not feel "guilty" or "dirty". Be happy in your ecstasy and passion.

You actually did both of you a favor. (Although I have never met a man who could not climax while doing anal.)

If he had gone from your anus to your vagina instead, he actually might have transferred bacteria to an area that could not handle it. On the other hand, finishing orally is much safer because your body is equipped with anti bodies and other ways to handle bacteria acquired that way.

So, unless you feel sick afterward, I would not worry about it. And, I wouold take the "nasty" comment in a good way unless you see his attitude toward you change and suddenly he wants really wierd stuff because he thinks you will do "anything'.