What's the biggest size you've ever had?
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What's the biggest size you've ever had?
| Fri, 03-18-2005 - 8:42pm |
My DH and I were fooling around the other night watching porn, and I saw the biggest penis in my life! It had to be at least 12 inches, and the poor woman could barely get her hand around it!! The look on the woman's face taking it didn't look like an act, either. She looked absolutley overwhelmed with passion taking it.
That of course, got me worked up! I love the size of my DH, but it got me thinking of what it would feel like to have one that big.
What was the biggest size you've ever been with, and was the experience a good one? Did it hurt and you eventually got used to it? I'm thinking of asking DH to get a big toy to play with, hopefuly he doesn't get upset!!

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I have had one HUGE guy (I didn't have a tape measure handy, so I can't say exactly how big it was) and the experience was the single worst experience of my sexual history. Despite me being very aroused, it was incredibly painful and he had all the skill of a battering ram. He didn't understand my pleading for him to be gentle.
Not surprisingly, I didn't go back for seconds.
I really don't understand the persistence of this "bigger is better" myth.
DW has told me that her ex (of 10 years) was "very large" and it was frequently uncomfortable, and she never orgasmed with him. I'm strictly average in size and she really loves that. It took us some time , but we learned and grew together until she started having orgasms every time during intercourse , then multiple ones. My average size is perfect for her and she wouldn't want me any bigger.
An interesting note is that the one guy she was ever with who was bigger than her ex was not the arrogant "battering ram" type. He was actually quite sensitive and very aware of how uncomfortable his size was for the vast majority of women. He even said that many women were so intimidated by his size that they refused to have sex with him. This is actually not as unusual as we may think, and I've seen at least one "large penis support group" board on the Internet where these men discuss their problems. I would guess, though, that they get little sympathy, kind of like women who want to talk about what a problem their large breasts are.
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Measuring size (ROFL): In discussing this issue with GFs, I explained that using our hands was the best tape measure to use in bed. XH was base of hand to top of middle finger (6 1/2 in real tape measure size). One GF reported "two fists (on top of each other) and part of mouth (we calculated about/over 8). Another GF reported one fist (about 3).
Biggest Size: Man I'm with now is the biggest and he's first I've had vaginal orgasms & Gspot orgasms (who knew there was such a wonderful beautiful spot). However, I was very pleased with XH and I never thought I could find anyone as good as him - he was so into me it was incredible. I totally agree that it's what they do and not what they have.
Did it hurt: NO. Did it all fit in the first time: NO Does it now: YES (she types with a smile)
If you want to see a BIG ONE, view a John Holmes movie. I saw him in print once - it was flacid and it almost touched his knees.
Remember, porn is fantasy and the woman was acting whatsmore....pleasure and pain, during intercourse, can look the same!
But she MAY have been enjoying herself or she may have been deciding what to make for dinner that evening. The point is that sex is a business for them so the more convincingly they portray pleasure, etc., the more work they get. We simply can't look to fantasy as a standard for our own sex lives though.
And as far as your SO's possible reaction to an extra large dildo...put yourself there first. How would YOU take to his desire for a tiny little fake vagina, which is also available at the same sex shop? Just something to consider.
For me, pleasure isn't about the size of the organ, but about the emotional bond we share, so bigger or smaller, it's going to make little difference.
Edited 3/20/2005 3:06 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
>>pleasure and pain, during intercourse, can look the same! <<
Ok, off on a tangent here. When my girlfriend describes something as being painful and pleasurable at the same time, what does she mean? More specifically, I've been given the comment that sometimes it feels good for her to feel like it's too hard a fit when I first enter her gradually becoming a nice fit after going at it for a few minutes.
Before anyone starts saying I should go ask her, I have. Outside of, "It just feels good!", she can't seem to describe the sensation.
So would anyone care to enlighten me as to what they meant?
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