how can i spice up my sex life?
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how can i spice up my sex life?
| Fri, 09-02-2005 - 7:09pm |
Me and my boyfriend we love having sex, but sometimes after awhile we get bored easily. What else can we do to spice up our sex life?

There are tons of things to spice up your sex life, different positions for intercourse, oral, foreplay,
Why have you never tried foreplay?
Besides intercourse, is there anything else you do, manual stimulation, giving each other oral, touching and exploring each other's bodies, finding each other's hot spots, etc.?
I agree with Tish, I couldn't really add anything to what she said...excellent advice! Here's a few articles that many have found pretty helpful too:
For practices and why they're so helpful with "boring" sex...
http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/mind/health/articles/0,,434735_437772,00.html
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,544153_285753,00.html
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexinthemood/0,,drpatti_nrcd,00.html
...and for newer and exciting positions you might not have tried or even heard of, here's a few that always raise eyebrows...
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_547497,00.html
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_633458,00.html
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_622007,00.html
I don't even remember the last time the Mrs. & I jumped right to intercourse without having fun with foreplay first. Enjoying each other and each other's bodies is completely part of the fun, even before enjoying intercourse. There are times when couples here and there enjoy foreplay even without intercourse too.
Having fun with each other and foreplay is something you get hints on, but its still a VERY fun learning process for you to enjoy yourselves that much more. Always your own unique ways you'll create together.
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C H A R A C T E R
I tried this once with my husband with WONDERFUL results, we both were super excited and I'm going to have to try it again soon.
Get a small box, pen and paper together. Cut the paper into pieces you can write on and put in the box.
on each scrap of paper write something on it that the person who grabs that paper MUST do to the other for 5 minutes (or more or less depending on the act and the fun you have during it)
Examples:
Perform oral sex on me
Masturbate in front of me
Massage my Back/legs/feet/butt/ chest (whatever suites you)
I will hide a dab of choclate on my body - find it with your tounge
Do a strip tease for me
my favorite: make me laugh
take turns pulling from the hat. some you may want to put back in the hat and save for later some you may want to change roles on - On way or another it is a sure fire way to keep you guessing what comes next.
Be sure to put tons of fun and sexy things in there. You may find that you dont get halfway through the box before you can resist any longer and just go for it.
Edited 9/3/2005 8:12 pm ET ET by allbluff
We made out on the couch with the lights out the other night...like when we first met.
It was incredible. It lead to much more in a slow sweet way.
I loved it.
Kris