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| Sat, 09-03-2005 - 7:35pm |
I wondered if any other ladies like rough sex? Maybe I'm weird... (probably) ... But Sometimes I really want my DH to be a bit rough and "take what he wants" Its a big turn on for me when he does.
I dont like violence or pain, I dont want that at all. But a little tusling and him fighting with some fake resistance on my part seems to really get me off.
I also talk dirty during sex and like it when we use nasty names. I will try to get my husband to call me "dirty" or his "slut" during intercourse esspecially anal sex. When he does i get really excited.
is that unussual or twisted for me to like?

Nothing is unusual or twisted as long as both partners enjoy it.
I like that too.
It is not unusual. He is your husband. Have fun.
Kris
No, I don't like having my hair pulled, being spanked(other than in a cute way) or being called derogatory terms while in the throes of lust. I like dirty talk, but our dirty talk doesn't include calling me a slut, bitch or anything like that. We do engage in a lot of teasing and light bondage, but nothing painful and nothing I'd categorize as rough. ;-) If you mean rough in the context of just getting down to the nitty gritty and acting in a way that is animalistic, then yes, we do, but we call it "raw" not "rough"..(although it could seem a little rough because we sort of rush around with utmost urgency). tee hee
Our sexual style is varied--depending on the weather. ;-) We make love as well as engage in raw sex....and yes, as someone else mentioned sometimes it's something in between. It's not our choice though...it's however the cards fall! We just play them. tee hee
Everyone's different though....what turns one person on, turns another person off; and one person's vanilla is another person's mint chocolate chip. ;-) As long as you and your SO are on the same wave-length, go for it--and don't fret.
Edited 9/6/2005 4:46 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam