rough sex

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Registered: 08-06-2004
rough sex
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Sat, 09-03-2005 - 7:35pm

I wondered if any other ladies like rough sex? Maybe I'm weird... (probably) ... But Sometimes I really want my DH to be a bit rough and "take what he wants" Its a big turn on for me when he does.

I dont like violence or pain, I dont want that at all. But a little tusling and him fighting with some fake resistance on my part seems to really get me off.

I also talk dirty during sex and like it when we use nasty names. I will try to get my husband to call me "dirty" or his "slut" during intercourse esspecially anal sex. When he does i get really excited.

is that unussual or twisted for me to like?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: allbluff
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 8:15pm

Nothing is unusual or twisted as long as both partners enjoy it.


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Registered: 08-06-2004
In reply to: allbluff
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 8:24pm
I agree - it is about mood. and never too rough. Sometimes I'm just in a feisty mood and feel like getting a little dirty.
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Registered: 07-01-2005
In reply to: allbluff
Sat, 09-03-2005 - 11:06pm
Nope, not weird at all. I prefer rough sex, but like the others, not to extremes. I just think its a huge turn on when I feel like he wants me so bad he cant control himself. Hair pulling is my favorite. ;0)
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Registered: 12-09-2003
In reply to: allbluff
Mon, 09-05-2005 - 7:39pm
Love it!! Talking dirty, hair pulling, spanking. Nothing too crazy but yeah rough sex rocks!
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Registered: 07-05-2005
In reply to: allbluff
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 5:31am

I like that too.

It is not unusual. He is your husband. Have fun.

Kris

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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: allbluff
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:22pm
I'm not much of one for rough sex, prefer it soft and gentle. But every now and again there is something very sensual about being treated more aggressively. Elaine
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: allbluff
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:33pm
No, I don't like rough sex with hair pulling, spanking, etc. and I don't care for being called names at all, but I do like more aggressive, straight-to-the-point sex at times. But you're not weird for liking what you like though.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: allbluff
Tue, 09-06-2005 - 4:38pm

No, I don't like having my hair pulled, being spanked(other than in a cute way) or being called derogatory terms while in the throes of lust. I like dirty talk, but our dirty talk doesn't include calling me a slut, bitch or anything like that. We do engage in a lot of teasing and light bondage, but nothing painful and nothing I'd categorize as rough. ;-) If you mean rough in the context of just getting down to the nitty gritty and acting in a way that is animalistic, then yes, we do, but we call it "raw" not "rough"..(although it could seem a little rough because we sort of rush around with utmost urgency). tee hee

Our sexual style is varied--depending on the weather. ;-) We make love as well as engage in raw sex....and yes, as someone else mentioned sometimes it's something in between. It's not our choice though...it's however the cards fall! We just play them. tee hee

Everyone's different though....what turns one person on, turns another person off; and one person's vanilla is another person's mint chocolate chip. ;-) As long as you and your SO are on the same wave-length, go for it--and don't fret.




Edited 9/6/2005 4:46 pm ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
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