Why did that turn him on ? Guys insight

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Registered: 06-21-2005
Why did that turn him on ? Guys insight
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 11:48am

Hi

Not sure if this is where I should be posting this. Just that I am curious about something. I've been with my man for 6 months and the other night we went to a sex spa, very clean and decent.
Anyway we were both curious and hooked up with a couple. My BF was giving me head and this other guy was touching my breasts, they then swopped postions.

It was very erotic and my boyfriend said this turned him on.

I was just wanting to know if this would turn any other guys on and why ?

Thanks

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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 1:02pm
Well, I'm not a guy, but I'm 46 and not exactly a nun. I have reached the conclusion that it is more what will not turn a guy on than what will! Elaine
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 1:26pm
What's a "Sex Spa"?

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 1:26pm

Most men have the fantasy of being in a threesome, foursome, or whateversome, including swapping and sex with strangers. Most men don't get to live that fantasy though.

As a woman, if my SO, b/f or whatever wanted to share me with another man or another woman, I'd question his feelings/commitment/devotion to me.

Most fantasies are better left as fantasies, because there can be repercussions.

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Registered: 06-21-2005
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 1:39pm

Hi

Well what it is is a small club where couples or singles go and hang out. There are little rooms you can hire and you can decide to either interact with other people or just do your own thing. There are hot tubs and saunas.

It wasn't bad to go to and my curiosity was satisfied

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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 2:12pm
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 3:06pm
No, this would not turn me on in the slightest, but everyone is different.
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 4:14pm
Uh no. This wouldn't turn my DH on in the least. He has no desire to share me with another partner...male or female.
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 4:21pm
My guy better not ever be okay with sharing me because if he is I would have a big problem with it and I would have to evaluate my relationship with him....
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Sun, 09-11-2005 - 5:55am

>> Uh no. This wouldn't turn my DH on in the least. He has no desire to share me with another partner...male or female.

Umm, so how long have you been married? My own suspicion is that many (most?) men begin to change their attitudes on this subject somewhere around the 10th year of marriage or at age 40/45, whichever comes first.

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Sun, 09-11-2005 - 9:11am

I know this post was addressed to Kat, but


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