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just wondering......
| Fri, 09-09-2005 - 3:32pm |
OK, last night me and my boyfriend were having sex,we took off our clothes and what not, well, when we started having sex I still had my bra on. So, my boyfriend was trying to unhook it, he ended up pulling on it, but when was trying to unhook it, it kinda snapped and hit my back, which really hurt bad. Finally he got it undone, but after that I didnt know what to do cause I had felt like I lost my concentration and then I just lost the feeling...how can I prevent this from happeing again??
Edited 9/9/2005 3:56 pm ET ET by shining_star007
Edited 9/9/2005 3:56 pm ET ET by shining_star007

Well, the way you prevent this loss of concentration and desire is by taking your bra off FOR him next time! LOL!
Look, I don't know any woman OR man who would be able to concentrate after being snapped sharply on the back like that. I'll bet if you accidently pulled his pubic hair or snapped the waistband of his underwear on his testicles, he would have a sudden loss of desire, too. Pain has a way of canceling out pleasure!
Don't make one incident a problem. It isn't. We aren't machines that will respond the same way every time, so we shouldn't expect that. All kinds of things can interfere with our mood, concentration and desire. But we always have the next time to work it out.
A little prevention goes a long way though.....what he can't manage to remove on his own, take off for him!
Edited 9/9/2005 4:35 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001