afternoon sex...

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Registered: 08-06-2004
afternoon sex...
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Wed, 09-14-2005 - 9:49pm

Just wondering how often you all have sex in the afternoon.

We have children and the kids are normally up and running wild throughout the day so Its not often we have sex in the afternoon. Just recently on days off my husband has shown alot of interest in putting the kids down for naps and having a romp...

Its been about 3 years since we've had the opprotunity to do this because we've had toddlers toddling in all the time... you know how that goes...

and Frankly I am excited and willing but also a little modest and restrained, I'm just not used to it and constantly worry about the kids waking up or the sunight revealing a stray zit or some other thing... My Daytime worrys plaque me during daytime play! My Husband automatically thinks I'm not in the mood or refusing him when I'm reluctant but thats not the case at all.

For Some reason when he approaches me for sex during the day it makes me feel like a teenager doing it while mom and dad is away and all my very old inhibitions rear their ugly heads! Normally I'm not inhibited at all.

Whats the matter with me!? I want it so bad but have a hard time letting go when the Sun Is sending slanting rays through the window on me!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: allbluff
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 7:33am

Afternoon sex for us is whenever it's possible.


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Registered: 09-07-2005
In reply to: allbluff
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 10:10am
I feel the same way. Afternoon sex just turns me off in ways I can't explain. I think the dark or semi-dark heightens your other senses or something. I just know that it always feels better in the evening or night time.
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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: allbluff
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 10:18am
Afternoon sex is the best. There is nothing nicer than a lingering lunch followed by a lingering afternoon delighting in each other's body in bed. Elaine
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: allbluff
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 12:11pm
Shut the blinds, shut out the sun and he'll still get to do it in the daytime and you'll still have enough dimness in the room to give you some comfort.
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Registered: 07-01-2005
In reply to: allbluff
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 1:21pm
theres no better way to spend the afternoon :)

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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: allbluff
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 7:04am

Can I just say that your husband loves you for who you are, and no matter whether you have a zit on you or a little cellulite on your thighs or whatever, he is still attracted to you (obviously). So what's the big deal? No one said you have to leave the curtains open so that all the sunlight shines over you, you can leave the curtains closed if you want to. You can leave the blankets over you until you really get into it and forget about yourself.

I have just started seeing a new guy, and most of the sex we've had has been in the afternoon, because it's the most convenient time for the both of us. I've always been comfortable with my body, and so it's not a problem for me. He likes me, is attracted to me, and is doesn't have a problem with my body, or the size of my breasts or anything, so there is no reason to hide any part of myself.

Let loose and have some fun, you'll feel better for it :).

Janet

 


 


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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: allbluff
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 2:25pm
Well, I read this in the afternoon, I'm now horny in the afternoon, wife isn't here, but....can't wait. Gotta go. Thans for the inspiration!