a question

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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 9:48am

have you walked in on your parents while they were having sex? has someone walked in on you? how did you feel both times? this has happened to me i walked in on my parents and my mom/ both dd's/ his mom have walked in on us. sexual situations happen at home. have a brother, sister been in situations where we, i and them have seen each other changing etc.

kate

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In reply to: kathryn_58
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:10am

Nope, never walked in on parents having sex, they always locked the door! I have walked in during passionate kisses, etc. though. Nothing too nightmare-inducing. LOL!

Thanks goodness, my mom never walked in on me having sex with the DH. THAT would have been embarrassing. But I would think embarrassement would be the general reaction to either situation.

And of course, if you live with a family, you're bound to walk in when someone is changing, running from a bedroom to a bathroom, etc. Didn't bother me, in fact, it was usually funny.

Why do you ask?

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In reply to: kathryn_58
Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:37am

I never walked in on my parents having sex as far as I remember.


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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 10:53am
"caught by our youngest son last year." Okay, that's my biggest nightmare. LOL! Having one of our sons come over unexpectedly, come looking for us and catching us doing that on a Sunday afternoon! My DH and I joke about that happening all the time. Thank goodness it hasn't....YET!
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 11:38am

sorry i asked. i think it is not unheard of or unusall for a family member to see or be seen. yes very unpleasent, very embarrasing, very uncomfortable. most are rather innocent incidents yet make an impression. that's all.

kate

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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 1:15pm
The only reason I asked why you were asking the question is that your post seemed to indicate that you had a particularly bad or interesting situation and felt a certain way afterwards. That's all.
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 5:35pm

We go 22 yrs with having kids in the house and were never walked in on until then.


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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 7:27pm

i will tell you my moment of humiliation in public. dd#1 was 5 or 6 she one day saw me doing oral on dh in private in our room when she was supposed to be asleep. nothing was said about it untill i got out of line. about 2 weeks after the incident i had taken her to the bank not the drive up window, i had stopped for ice cream before we got there she had finshed it, as we walked up to the teller who knows us by name, she offered dd a popcicle which i did not allow her to have explained too much sugar junk. MY MISTAKE dd rather stern and warned me "i want that", i said no, with that she said "ok i am going to tell grandmom (my mom) you were kissing daddy's pee pee". everyone stopped and of course looked at me, i was mortified. 20 years later i do not go to that branch.

kate.

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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 5:25pm
Was that YOU? That incident was repeated almost verbatim in a forward I received not long ago! Now THAT is a nightmare! LOL! Maybe someone in the bank that day told their friends and so on and so on. You're now an online legend.
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 6:14pm