Do you ever...

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Do you ever...
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 5:53pm
take it very slow and easy when you have sex. I like to do this sometimes but my wife really does not like it. We were on vaction in a beach front house one time. There was a beautful view of the bay from our bedroom window. So we turned off all the lights one evening and had sex in front of the window. It was private, no one could see in. We were having intercourse with my wife sitting in my lap facing me. This let us see the veiw and enjoy romantic environment. I loved the beautful views,(out the window and my unclothed wife)and the very slow gentle intcourse. After about 2 min she told me lay her on her back get some thrusting going. I loved the slow intimate sex. Do other folks like it slow some times? My wife never does.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sqlboy
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 6:14pm

I enjoy it slow, fast and everywhere in-between.


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Registered: 08-06-2004
In reply to: sqlboy
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 7:09pm
I like it slow sometimes but I wont orgasm... so when I'm ready for an O I will ussually always ask for faster, harder, deeper.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: sqlboy
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 12:17am

If I had my way, it would ALWAYS be slow and easy....but sometimes, there's just not enought time for that.....life and obligations can get in the way.

In that environment while on vacation with nothing BUT time, it would have to be slow and easy.....and loving! It would have to be LOTS of foreplay (hopefully, you're not skipping the foreplay), frequent position changes, and an hour or two of pure pleasure. It sounds like she just wants to get it over with. She doesn't know what she's missing!

Did you ever ASK her why she doesn't like to do it that way, and why she's always in a hurry? Maybe you should!

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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: sqlboy
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 6:10am
Mmmmmm, there is nothing in the world like long, soft, gentle sex. My favorite place for such escapades is out of doors. I love putting out an air matress and blanket, and then spending lots and lots of time doing it under the stars. Elaine
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Registered: 03-14-2006
In reply to: sqlboy
Tue, 03-14-2006 - 11:57am
I defintely love to have slow, intimate intercourse. I love the feeling of having my husband inside me. I think he actually lasts longer this way as well.
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Registered: 03-21-2006
In reply to: sqlboy
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 4:28am
Yes I love everything about lovemaking to be fairly slow, I enjoy the feelings more if its slow and savour them. Although if we are just having a "quickie" we speed things up more.
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Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: sqlboy
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 9:40am
I usually start out very slow and teasingly but that doesn't last all that long. For me, being married 12 years it's all about the foreplay and before-play (Little things done and said during the course of a day) and once the act starts, it gets rougher and faster.