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| Sat, 09-17-2005 - 2:39pm |
I'm sure you all remember my post about how angry, frustrated and hurt I was feeling about the slow sex life my husband and I have had since our children were born and he has had alot of stress at work.
Well I had discussed it with him on several occassions and although he seemed to understand I dont think the message was really sticking. I finally got really upset. Started bawling and I said some nasty things to him... we slept in seperate rooms that night and didnt really speak much.
But the next day after our tempers had settled we started talking again. And the talk was very productive, I think my message finally sunk in. Since then we've had some very enthusiastic and passionate sessions. He normally will never turn down a blowjob but this morning I tried to give him one and he declined... when I asked why He simply said "I'm saving this one up for tonight"
He has put forth alot of effort to be thoughtful of me and remember my needs since our arguement. He has been much more intimate with me in everyday ways - Like Rubs, pats, kisses, little hugs here and there. Coming up behind me and holding me tight for a second or 2 for no apparent reason. All of these little things are making me feel so wonderful and so positive... I am trying to do the same for him by doing thoughtful things for him, complementing and touching him in ways I know he likes more often. And of Course I'm putting alot more effort in getting the kids to bed on time so we have our time together, even if no sex is involved.
I feel great and I can tell my husband is feeling better about us too.
Edited 9/17/2005 2:59 pm ET ET by allbluff

Glad to hear things are much better, talking things out can make a world of difference.