boyfriend has an obsession

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Registered: 07-21-2005
boyfriend has an obsession
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Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:10pm
OK, so once my boyfriend started feeling me up, he enjoyed, but now he has an obession with my breast. He always has a need of touching of them at home, when Iam watching tv, while him or I are driving, and mostly at night. Should I worried?

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Registered: 08-06-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:28pm

No, Absolutely not. Men like Breasts. Esspecially breasts that are new to them, or Nice breasts, Or whatever - Take it as a compliment! he likes your Boobies!

Unless its sometyhing that bothers you or is becoming inappropriete I wouldnt worry at all.

Some men like Butts! Its impossible keeping my husbands hands off my ass!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 7:43pm

Worried about what?

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Registered: 07-21-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 8:40pm
only thing Iam worried about is that its going to turn into an obsession for him. Iam ok with him doing it, just not in public or while Iam driving...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 8:46pm

In public?


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Registered: 07-21-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 8:57pm
Iam going to talk to him tonight..I dont mind him doing it while we are at home watching tv, or in bed, but I will have to draw the line at doing it in public and while Iam driving. I will let him know.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 9:23pm

Well, he shouldn't have to be told not to feel you up in public, I would think he's old enough to already know that but since he doesn't seem to know what is appropriate and what's not, then you are going to have to tell him not to do it.


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Registered: 07-21-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 10:08pm
I will tell him and discuss it with him...
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 11:13pm

From your first post, I thought you two were teen agers.....once you let him "feel you up" he can't keep his hands off you. But then you implied that you two live together, and I suppose there's more going on than just feeling between you two. When I thought that was all he was allowed, I thought "poor guy, he's wanting more, but that's all he gets"!

If you two are old enough to live together, then he is old enough to know what's appropriate, and what's not. Sexual touching in public is NOT appropriate, and he needs to STOP it! He might be obsessed, but he needs to curb his obsession. It's up to you to tell him what you will accept, and what you won't accept.

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Registered: 07-21-2005
Fri, 09-23-2005 - 11:31pm
Were both 21, but have been dating since we were teenagers..My boyfriend does crazy, that sometimes get out of hand, but I will draw the line and tell him.
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Registered: 08-20-2004
Sat, 09-24-2005 - 1:27am
It could be worse. He could be trying to touch other women's breasts.

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