Orgasm and Heat?

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Registered: 08-21-2005
Orgasm and Heat?
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Sun, 09-25-2005 - 1:43pm

Hey, I think this is the first time Ive actually started a thread instead of just sharing my limited and dubious wisdom concerning other's post.

Ive had sex with 9 women, not at once, over my life time. Not your GQ standard, and I would would be quite as happy if it had been fewer...

But from that limited experience I do have a question.... somedays I have better control than others, and every once in a while I am just plain superman... but when my wife orgasms from intercourse, it doesnt matter how near to orgasm or totally solid in control I am, she gets HOT, like someone turned her oven to broil. It starts just before orgasm, and is sometimes so intense that in mere seconds, 5 or 6, I go from solidly confident I can last the 10 or 15 more seconds it will be till she orgasms, only to have the incredible heat send me flying over the edge and so fully drained I can fail her with just seconds to go...but fortunately not often as her own momentum can often finish for her..

I havent expereinced anything like this with anyone else, and a cousin who had escaped a very wild lifestyle as a very upscale stripper in LA told me it sounded an awful lot like what she felt from injecting speed during sex..( which she is honest about and regrets ever having expereinced, the addiction nearly killed her, and its what she ran away from back to small town Iowa, she actually loved being a stripper, hehe)

But wife and I have matured beyond the stupid rebellious and experimental days and are drug free. With 6 billion people in the world, no matter how weird any one person thinks they are, youve probably got 1000's if not millions of people with the same weirds. So Im sure this isnt unique, but is it common, or just a great gift?.. Yeah, its sometimes a little annoying that noithing I do short of just gettin out of there can prevent me from cumming, but it feels great great great, and its really nice to never have to ask.. did you? Well , that is during intercourse, she doesnt have this happen from clitoral orgasm, just vaginal.

Well, just a curiousity not a serious concern, but hey, its my first time trying to contribute by starting a thread..Ill do better next time.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: ked_tld
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 9:54am

Not sure how common it is, but I experience the same thing any time I orgasm. Doesn't seem to matter how it's achieved. My DH has mentioned feeling my internal temperature go up numerous times over the years.

Of course, I notice the same thing about my DH's erection right before and during orgasm as well. Makes sense that the external temp. of an area would rise when there is more blood in that area.

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Registered: 08-27-2005
In reply to: ked_tld
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:18am
Hey ked-tid,
I think it was a great first post - it is always easier to add to a post than start one! Now you have broken the ice - so I think we'll be seeing more threads from what's on your mind!
I had just been listening to a CD yesterday on Kama Sutra (very good by the way) and one of the steps that Suzie Johnson talks about is heat. Before a woman is ready to orgasm her body heat SHOULD intensify greatly. She even uses the oven example - going from bake to broil!! lol
I am sure you will learn to control yourself - think back to when you first started to perform, I am sure if you are like a lot of guys, you shot your wad before you wanted to and had to learn control.
You and your wife just keep enjoying it while you continue to check her temperature! Lust