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| Wed, 10-05-2005 - 8:14am |
I am in my early 20’s and have had 3 sexual partners (intercourse) and all that has happened when I was a smaller size. I have now gained some weight and now am a size 16. I am in a new relationship now and he is pretty good about giving complements about my body so I don’t feel that self-conscious. Things have gotten pretty hot and heavy lately and we have special night planned for this weekend. My main concern is that with his average sized penis (6”) and my weight that penetration might be shallow. What are the best positions that allow the deepest amount of penetration and that aren’t too aerobic? One friend recommended missionary with a pillow under my hip, and of course there is always me on top but I think my boobs might be smacking me in the face (:p) during that one. Thanks for any suggestions!!!!

Size 16 is NOT fat......maybe according to todays standards, where everyone is supposed to look like they're starving to death, but it is NOT fat. And it certainly will NOT interfere with sex, or penetration in any way!
As far as the way you look to him is concerned, he knows what you look like with your clothes ON, and therefore he knows what you will look like with your clothes OFF! Not all men like emaciated women! In fact, if you ask them, I think most men LIKE a woman with a little meat on her bones! And at size 16, that is exactly what you have.....you are NOT fat!
Do what you always do, and it will be the same as it always was.....NO difference.
When you're on top, try moving in more of a circular, grinding motion instead of bouncing up and down.
Hey, Kat!
good luck,
Heather M.