why did this happen?

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Registered: 09-01-2005
why did this happen?
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Fri, 10-07-2005 - 9:53am
My boyfriend was going down on me, and then started fingering me, and maybe I wasn't wet enough yet, but when he added a third finger it really started to hurt and pulled back for a second, but then told him to keep going because the pain went away. When he finished, after I orgasmed, he told me that there was blood on his fingers. He felt really bad and thinks its because he hurt me. I only bled for a second, really lightly, but why did this happen? Why did I bleed? I didn't feel like he scratched me.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:27am
Depends. If you're a virgin, then it's likely that he was tearing your hymen when he put the extra finger in. If you aren't a virgin, then he probably scratched you. Tell him to trim his nails and ease up a bit.
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 10-07-2005 - 10:51am

The reason it hurt was probably because you weren't aroused and relaxed enough to accept three fingers. You could have torn a little at that point. Also, if he did "scratch" you inside the vagina, you wouldn't feel it, because there is very little feeling inside the vagina, only at the opening.

As long as it was only a few drops, and you didn't continue to bleed, it isn't anything to worry about. He has nothing to feel guilty about. It happens.