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| Mon, 10-10-2005 - 1:31pm |
Hi
What is your opinion on one night stands. Would you date someone who has had a one night stand? Have you ever had one?
| Mon, 10-10-2005 - 1:31pm |
Hi
What is your opinion on one night stands. Would you date someone who has had a one night stand? Have you ever had one?
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I'm trying to figure out if you're a female that's trying to decide whether or not to date someone who has had one night stands, or if you're wondering if a guy would date YOU (or any other female) that has had one night stands.
Either way, what someone did before they met another person is no business of the other person. If you don't like one night stands, then don't have them. If you've had one night stands, how would he know that anyway?
If a guy you want to date has had them.....so what? As long as he doesn't make YOU a one night stand, and he can't do that if you don't have sex with him on the first date.
Lots of people have them, so I guess lots of people think they're okay. That's personal choice.....and is no one's business but their own.
Edited 10/11/2005 9:55 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
zelenooka,
I had a couple of one night stands before I was married. The myth is that men can have them and it's no big deal...that was not true for me at all. I always felt sort of empty and lonely after them.
As far as having a relationship with someone that has had one. I suspect that a fair percentage of the population have had one or two, if you use this as a litmus test for a potential relationship, you will probably cut out an awful lot of great people from your pool of perspective partners. It is always best to view a persons character based on what they are now rather than what they have done in the past.
Peace,
Scott.
LOL...almost.
I've had one night stands in my past. Never went into them with that intention. They just turned out that either I or she wasn't interested in continuing a relationship much longer than a few dates if that. Some said they would call and didn't. Some called and turned out to be fatal attractions that I had to run from.
Edited 10/11/2005 11:15 am ET by luvlickin
Yea, when I was in college, I had a few one night stands, sometimes with the same girl. But the definition of a one night stand sort of leads to the belief that a relationship exists. Now what starts out as a one night stand, may lead to a relationship.
CH
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