just a couple of questions..

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just a couple of questions..
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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 4:49pm

i'll just get right to the point. i've only had sex twice. my bf just recently took my virginity. but yeah. so i just had a couple of questions. 1. can you use a condom for like underwater type of sex. or does that just not work? cause he wants to have sex in the shower or in the jacuzzi at his house. and i just want to be safe and NOT get pregnant. and don't suggest birth control. cause when you actually want a baby. the baby could be born f'ed up and stuff. 2) well. i just plain get really really wet. like to the point that i have to wear a pad.. cause otherwise i get it even onto my pants. is there ANYTHING that i can do to ease it up a bit? cause i mean. i'm willing to try anything. i think it really turns him off by the pad. but i mean. there's nothing else i can do. for now at least. 3) is there anything that i can, you know, feed him to make his cum taste better? don't get me wrong. i love it. especially when he cums in my mouth and such. sometimes if i get him really turned on and we don't have enough time for me to give him an handjob or blowjob. he just jacks off real fast. and then i let him cum in my mouth. but i just was wondering. cause i heard there are certain foods that make it taste better.

ANY comments would be soooooo helpful. :)

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Wed, 10-12-2005 - 5:24pm

Hi Jess-ka.

1. It's not likely that a condom will stay on in a pool or jacuzzi but should be no problem in the shower since you won't be immersed in water. Just a warning though, unless you use a water-proof lube, sex in the water can be VERY uncomfortable since it washes away ALL your natural lubrication. And that's all that's protecting you from nasty tears and abrasions during thrusting.

And I'm not sure where you got your information about BC pills but it's wrong. Being on BC pills prior to getting pregnant will have no effect on a baby.

2.There's nothing you can do to change the amount of lube you produce. That's determined by your hormones. Be grateful for it. It's there for a reason.....your protection and pleasure. So what if your guy doesn't like the mini pad...tell him to get over it. It's part of being with a woman so deal with it.

3. There's also nothing you can do to change the taste of his ejaculate. That's also determined by his hormone levels. Keep a soda or fruit drink on the nightstand to sip from after he ejaculates to dilute or wash away the taste. Gum or mints before or during oral can also help get rid of the taste. You might suggest that he drink more water because his semen could taste extra strong because he's dehydrated.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 6:16pm

1. can you use a condom for like underwater type of sex. or does that just not work?

Generally speaking, No, you cannot use a condom in a jaccuzzi or whatever. The chemicals and the hot water and the lack of lubrication will almost certainly make it break. I've known it to happen to friends too. There is also some small risk that some semen will squish out of the wet condom and into you.
It might work better in the shower but you'll probably need more lubrication to make sure that it doesn't break. Remember that petroleum and oil based lubes like Vaseline will make a condom weak and break even though they don't wash off.

I don't know where you got your information, but the BC pill will not harm a baby.

2) well. i just plain get really really wet.
If you're going to have to wear a pad then you are going to have to wear a pad. There isn't a lot that you can do about it. How wet you get is not something that you can control. Carrying a change of underwear or changing trousers after you've been making out doesn't sound like it will do the trick so he'll just have to get used to you wearing a pad.

3) is there anything that i can, you know, feed him to make his cum taste better?

Pineapple juice is meant to be good. So is lots of fruit and cutting down on the amount of meat in his diet. Make sure he drinks lots of water. But I doubt that he is really going to change what he eats substantially just so his cum tastes a little bit better. Things that he should stay away from are asparagus, garlic, and broccolli apparently. Smoking definitely makes it taste worse so that's another reason to give up smoking if he needs one.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 10-12-2005 - 6:58pm

I agree with what Kat and Westie said, I wouldn't trust condoms in a Jacuzzi.


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Registered: 10-12-2005
Thu, 10-13-2005 - 2:25am
thank you everyone. i didn't expect answers so quick. :) so now i know. lol. wow. i must have failed sex ed. but it's better to ask and know. then to screw something up.