from hard to soft in 2.5
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from hard to soft in 2.5
| Mon, 10-17-2005 - 9:58pm |
I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and the sex was ackward in the beginning but it got much better over time. my 10 yr. old had been gone to her dads for the beginning of this relationship. Now she is home and the sex isn't the same. He can be rock hard in the beginning of foreplay but it seems that about 5 to 10 minutes later, he is not very hard and he tries to have intercourse with me. He will then after a few tries become hard again but he orgasms way before I get there. What do I do about this? We have talked about it and we both aren't too sure what the problem is......HELP!!!!!

How long has it been happening?
I'd say that it's what dextar talked about - distraction of some kind. There's a good chance that it's because your daughter in now at home, but it could be anything like workplace stress and simply the chance in household routine throwing him out too. I don't think that you should panic at this stage if it's only been a few weeks. Hopefully it'll resolve itself. Just don't talk too much about it and put too much pressure on the guy - these things have a way of mentally blowing themselves out of proportion and he'll get performance anxiety which could lead to him having trouble every time to get it up.