Once you go big ... can you go back?

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Registered: 10-12-2005
Once you go big ... can you go back?
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Tue, 10-18-2005 - 2:28pm

This question involves intercourse. For the most part, I've never been in a situation where I could have intercourse with a man who was very large (say well more than 8 inches). But I've heard stories from a few girlfriends and other posts here, that speak of an experience where they've never slept with a very big guy. However, then they do, and if they can take them in, sex with smaller men is never the same.

So my question is, once a woman is able to take a very large guy in, is there no way she can get that intense feeling from intercourse with a smaller man?

Are the women who have an intense experience with bigger men, who subsequently can't get the same experience again with smaller men, girls with large vaginas?

Are Kegels the key to sucess in taking in a smaller man?

***Please, no soap boxing or attacks, or size doesn't matter speeches if you don't have experiences that answer the questions. ****

I specifically want to hear from women that have gone from small/average, to BIG (enjoyed), then went back to small/average and enjoyed that too (intercourse wise).

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Avatar for katmandoo2001
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Tue, 10-18-2005 - 3:03pm

Well, I can speak from experience and the answer is...yes, you can.

There is more to sexuality, arousal and pleasure than a big penis. And since most women still require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, then it's less of a consideration for most women than many men seem to believe.

And after all, the brain is the largest sex organ any of us has. If it's not engaged, then the biggest erection in the world can't do a thing.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 3:45pm

You CAN do anything you want to! If you've been with a "big" man, and then wind up falling madly in love with an "average" man, are you going to kick him to the curb if he doesn't "measure up"?

I've been with a big man, and it was no big deal, since there's very little feeling in the vagina anyway, and too big hits the cervix, which HURTS.

Kegels will tighten the PC muscle which surrounds the opening of the vagina, and has no effect on the vaginal muscles.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 6:45pm

Yes you can, no probs. It's all about technique. If a guy knows what to do with his penis, then it doesn't matter what size he is. I went (recently) from a guy that was quite large to a guy that was average. But what my new guy can do with his penis just blows my mind!

Janet

 


 


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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 7:39pm
Interesting question. I haven't yet gone back, but I have noticed this summer and fall that sex with a big one is a different experience. Obviously there's much much much more to a relationship than the guy's penis, but all things being equal I'll take one that's slightly too large. I think _way_ to large would be horrible though.
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Registered: 08-20-2004
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 4:11am

Is is possible to back to a smaller guy? Sure. Will you enjoy it as much? Probably not if you enjoyed the larger man. Different strokes for different folks.

But this begs another question. Would an average man want such a woman?

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 9:15am
Good sex is all about the emotional connection, You'll know it when you have it.

 

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 11:02am
kegals have nothing to do with handling a mans length, only his girth...Not all long men are girthy, and some average men ARE girthy. Contrary to popular belief, many women do not like a long penis..the reason is that IF the man gets carried away, as they sometimes do, and thrusts too deeply, it can be very painful.Many men like to have their penis fully "in". That isnt possible if the woman they are with is too shallow for them. So a lot of women who really love a big or long penis ,do sometimes have a deeper vagina. Ive been with women who have been too shallow for me to put it all in and the last thing I want is to cause a woman pain. My wife on the other hand can accommodate all of me, and that makes for some good "rougher" sex as I dont have to be careful about going too deep and hurting her...She had a boyfriend once who was 9" and she said it was like torture.A couple inches one way or another can make a big difference as to whats comfortable and whats not.
One thing I find humorous is that women always say its how he "uses" it , but no one ever says what it is that they mean by using it correctly......lol
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-19-2005 - 5:22pm
No, I think women who say that know what they're saying, Hump. One woman's idea of "using it correctly" will not be another's.
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Wed, 10-19-2005 - 5:29pm
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Registered: 10-19-2005
Thu, 10-20-2005 - 8:06am

Talking as a male with experience i am very well endowed down there and it gives me enormous confidence as i find that whenever a woman sees my manhood she always wants to sleep with me, i have had over 25 partners and only one woman has seen my member and not had penetrative sex and we were like 15 at the time.

some women really enjoy big cocks, and they can have bigger and more frequent orgasms as a result, others find sex really painful.

i have had quite a few partners that have orgasmed through penetrative sex that haven't with other people despite the fact they have had quite a few partners.

zipp.

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