Fetish Accusations.

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Fetish Accusations.
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Thu, 10-20-2005 - 10:31pm
I know i cant spell, so im sorry if my verbal vocabulary outwits my written. On to the point!! I read an old discussion where a woman said that all men had some form of a foot fetish. Take this from a person who has a very formidable foot fetish, not all men do. I have been harrased about it after admitting to it, it didnt bother me because i'm proud of who i am, it just let me know i shouldnt go into great detail of my interrest of feet. I was very lucky to have fallen in love with a woman who finds my fetish flattering instead of disconcerning. To give you an idea, i often give her foot messages, suck on her toes, recieve footjobs, etc. Most men i know have no interrest in these things, or atleast would never admit to it. My wonderful and amazing gf even indulges me with little things like wearing flip flops so i can see her feet, or rub my leg with her foot under the dinner table. She'll even go as far as to bring me her sox after walking around college all day. The men who will read this will have one of three reactions: 1. Agree (or worse say,"thats all? i can do one better!"), 2. partially agree and admit to admiring their womans feet, but thats about it, or 3. completly disagree and state that they wouldnt touch feet unless their womans shoe was stuck. So no, not all men enjoy feet. I do, but i know im a unique character. I know there are others worse of than I, and i kind of enjoy it, I enjoy being warm water in a hot/cold world.

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Thu, 10-20-2005 - 11:22pm
I'll add option number 4, which is halfway between 2 and 3: "I'm a man who gives very little thought to his partner's feet except when she is taking her soxs off at the end of the day and the aroma makes me aware of them, or when she clips her toenails onto the carpet while watching "McCloud's Daughters" (the Aussie's will know what I'm talking about), when she places her ice-cold feet on various parts of my body in bed, or when she's painting her toesnails. I'll touch them or massage them if she wants me to and I'll be OK with that - my feelings are relatively neutral when it comes to her feet."
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Fri, 10-21-2005 - 7:27am
I remember the discussion you're talking about.

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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 9:15am
I'm not so sure that every man and woman has a fetish but rather, has preferences. Most of us can perform, respond and still completely enjoy sexual activity without those preferences being met. But a true fetishist cannot. Big difference.
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 2:28pm

Hi hwyjunkie,

The past post you are refering to was mine guilty as charged. Let me correct myself since I realise the original statement may have been too bold. I do believe that "most" men do have a thing for the female foot weather they realize it or not. Why else would the female foot incased in a sexy shoe turn heads?. It seems thru out time any female wearing a highheel shoe gets the attention of the male. .would a guy be inclined to "check out" a women in sneakers? or would his attention be drawn to the female wearing a pair of 3" pumps. My husband has a foot fetish and he loves when I wear my 3" pumps. Believe me if I walked around the local mall in sweat pants and sneakers I would draw no special attention But, if I walked in the same mall wearing the same sweat pants and heels I'm sure I would turn heads and not because of the crazy outfit with the heels. Lets subtitute the sweat pants for say a pair of jeans, the same result would happen. So no not all men have a foot/shoe fetish sorry for that statement but I truly do believe that "MOST" men are "drawn" to a women wearing a sexy shoe. So call it what you like but the end result in my opinion is the same. By the way my husband also enjoys the scent of my feet when incased within a leather shoe as another board member submitted..

Mary

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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 11:39am

You're still assuming that it's the foot IN the high heel that men are attracted to though. And I submit that it's the way the high heel makes the leg LOOK, that draws the male eye. High heels contract the calf and elongate the leg.

And I have been whistled at wearing tennis shoes and a tennis dress....so it's NOT the shoes on the feet, for most men, it's the legs they notice. Any bare skin really.

My own DH could care less about my feet in particular and has shown no special interest in them, certainly not sexual interest, other than being part of my body, over almost 30 years together.

A bit of a leap to assume that because one man, your DH, in this case, has a particular fetish, is proof that all men do. I know that many are completely turned off by feet.




Edited 10/25/2005 11:43 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 12:18pm

Ok I surrender but there are a good amount of guys out there that have this fetish not ALL but a good amount dont want to get into percentages.

Have a great week,

Mary

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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 12:39pm

Mmmm yes....


A woman who wears sexy heels or boots hold my heart in the palm of her hand....I would give her wonderful foot massages and so forth..


..but of course the feet have to be nice and delicate, I don't just go for any feet.

 

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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:45pm
And that IS the debate here, Jman....I don't think so many men DO have this fetish. I certainly never met one who did.
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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:47pm

I don't want to get into percentages either. LOL! Doesn't affect me one way or the other though.

Have a great week as well!

kat

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Tue, 10-25-2005 - 3:00pm

Kat,

I read your profile and I just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to post it. It's very interesting because it is 80% of the profile I would have posted if I took the time you did to post one. I'v never connected with another member regarding what they wrote in a profile but, yours struck me in a very good way. My worst moment in life happened just this past weekend. As I was walking into the dry cleaners a guy about 25 was calling me saying miss,miss,miss he was retarded and I forced myself to look away as I thought he was going to ask me for something. Well I was in the cleaners and he walked past the door I thought for sure he was going to come into the store and start badgering me. Instead he walked past the door I was relieved but, then he came back and entered the store with one of my sweaters which I had droped on my way into the cleaners. He was just trying to let me know that I droped my sweater!!! I'll never forget that for as long as I live!!! period!. Why am I telling you this I have no clue. But just maybe its a warning for people to be a little kinder to others in life.

Feel free to pass this story onto anyone I think it is a very important lesson in life.

Mary

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