All About Freinds with Benefits

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Registered: 09-21-2006
All About Freinds with Benefits
Wed, 01-10-2007 - 7:53pm

After reading the other thread about friends with benefits, I decided to ask those of us in these relationships soem questions:

1. How did it start?- For me it was an affair. Then seperated form H, ended the affiar, dated someone new for 7 monthes. Stayed in tocuh with FWB and and now with him again since breaking up with boyfriend.

2. Do you make out? I assumed evryone did but not according to the poster. Yes we do passionately

3. Did you discuss the terms of your relationship?- NO

4. Do either of you date others? Neither or us did while we wer involved when i was married and neither of us is with anyone else now. The time we were apart in not my business

5. Has your relationship changed?- YES--ist time around i was the emtional one, now he is maybe one day we will get on the same page.

6. Is it just about sex?- At first yes...now we talk and watch movies etc in addition to having sex, but the sex is mind-numbing.

7. Describe your feelings ab out FWB in 1 word- Care

8. Who knows? My 2 closest friends. We party togehter sometimes

9. How long has it been going on---12 monthes without the breaks