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| Wed, 01-17-2007 - 9:35pm |
My first post in this section and I have alot of question with little experience so here I go.
I've been seeing this older guy for a while and we were messing around the other day when we were having sex, right when I'd get close to an O he would change stop and change positions. Does this happen alot with guys and how do I keep him in a comfortable position?
It then took 30 minutes for him to get done and I got nothing with this whole deal. Is this normal to take him so long. Other times it would take him a couple minutes.
He also pulls out alot and hands himself to get his O???
Then after ward he was really tired ans sweaty pretty much everywhere. Is it because he is older, it can't be him being out of shape because he works out and plays alot of sports. Is this normal for him to be completely wore out.
Is any of this normal and is there anything I can do for him

There's no such thing as "normal" when it comes to human behavior, and/or sexual behavior. If this is the way he is, if this is what he does, then it's "normal" for him.
Being different from time to time is also "normal". There's nothing wrong with him, and there's nothing that you "can do for him". This is how he is!
As for him stopping, or changing positions when you're close to an orgasm.....that's up to you to change. He probably doesn't realize you're close, so you have to let him know what's happening, and also ask him NOT to stop or change what he's doing. That's part of sex, to communicate to your partner what's going on, and what you want him to do, or not do. When you're getting close, just tell him "don't stop....just keep doing what you're doing".
A very important part of any relationship, including a sexual relationship, is to learn to talk to your partner. He knows you're not experienced, and there's no reason you couldn't have asked HIM all these questions. You can and should ask him if there's anything he'd like you to do for him, and if there's something you want, you need to ask for it. Neither of you is a mindreader! This goes for any new relationship, even when you have a lot more experience. Every partner is different, what works for one partner doesn't work for another......which is why it's important to learn to TALK to your partner.
There is not normal with sex, what is normal for one person, isn't normal for the next.
I'm also newbie as well. I have similar problems I cum quicker than my husband and he takes anywhere from 5 mins to 1 hour! Depend on how horney he is. I agree with everyone saying.
Love Rochelle