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Penis not thick enough
| Mon, 01-22-2007 - 10:52am |
My boyfriend's penis isn't as thick as I'd like it to be and I'm kind of not enjoying sex with him. What can I do to make sex more enjoyable?

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Sex is more than intercourse, and if you're like 80% of women, you'll get your "enjoyment" during foreplay, from lots of oral and manual clitoral stimulation.
There's very little feeling inside your vagina...your true sex organ is your clitoris. If intercourse isn't "doing it' for you, try stimulating your clitoris at the same time, either yourself, or he can do it, or your position can do it....woman on top is best for that.
Also, you might be too well lubricated, which will cut down on friction and feeling. Try drying yourself off with a tissue if that seems to be a problem.
There's nothing you can to to make it bigger, so try different tactics and positions until you find one that satisfies you.
Edited 1/22/2007 11:24 am ET by sakura2006
"My boyfriend's penis isn't as thick as I'd like it to be and I'm kind of not enjoying sex with him. What can I do to make sex more enjoyable?"
Has your boyfriend mentioned any complaints, as well?
There's nothing he can do to become larger, assuming he has completed puberty, other than to find another companion.
This option is open to you as well.
However, you do have the option of going the "kegal" route which requires some light exercises on your part to put your own genitals in optimum condition.
There are any number of sites available to you thru the internet to explain this program,if you lack familiarity.
"Maybe your vagina is too big"
Ha! Not likely. I have had the use of the same one for the last 46 years and it's still a highly tuned instrument.
Get a boyfriend with a thicker penis.
But whatever you do, be nice and don't mention to your guy. There's nothing he can do about it, and there's no reason to give him hangups over it.
If she were capable of that feat, this thread would never have been started by her.
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