i want to please him... HELP!!!!
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i want to please him... HELP!!!!
| Mon, 01-22-2007 - 7:26pm |
okay. this is sorta embarrassing, but i need advice and i didnt know where else to go!!! so i am 21. ive had sex before, but we were both virgins and kinda freaked out, so it didnt really lead to anything more. since then, that was 4 years ago, i havent been sexually active with anyone. now im to the point in a new relationship that i/we want to take things further. so my problem is... i dont know what to do!!! I dont know how to initiate oral sex on him. i dont know what to do during oral sex. I dont know how to make sure he, and of course I, have a good time during sex. i mean... i want to please him. i dunno what to do!!!! please help me!!!
thanks everyone!!!

Honesty is the best policy! Tell him that you have no experience, and you need him to guide you. It's not shameful to admit that you don't know what to do.
Even if you're experienced, since all guys (and women) are different, you'd have to ask him what he likes, and how he likes it done, because every new partner is different.
There's no way anyone here can tell you what to do.....so you'll have to ask him to help you, and I'm sure he'll love to do just that. As for what you want and need, you'll just have to figure that out as you go along. Don't be afraid to ask him to do something you'd like him to do, and don't be afraid to ask him what he wants, or if you're doing it the way he likes it.
If you can't talk to him about this, then you're not ready for sex with him or anyone else. For more information about YOUR body and what you need, check out www.the-clitoris.com