How to start

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Registered: 05-02-2005
How to start
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Tue, 01-23-2007 - 3:50pm
Hello everybody I would like some suggestions in how to start with anal sex, I really want to try it but I don't know how to let my partner know or what to do to get used to it
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: goddess_lita
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 4:46pm

You start SLOWLY, very, very slowly!

Seriously though, it's best to start exploring digital anal stimulation and then penetration before moving onto intercourse.

How to tell your partner you're interested? Just tell him it sounds erotic to you.

Using a good lube, ask your partner to tease your anus and digitally penetrate little by little during foreplay or intercourse to see if anal intercourse is really something you want to try.

And remember, just because you do it once doesn't mean you must do it again. It's important that you enjoy this act or it can be painful.

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Registered: 05-02-2005
In reply to: goddess_lita
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 10:39am
Thank you!