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gay or straight??
| Wed, 02-07-2007 - 8:45pm |
My boyfriend admitted to me that when he masturbates, he sometimes uses his fingers to go inside of his anus. I know for a fact that he doesn't get turned on by guys. What exactly does this mean?

From reading on here, I've learned that some men like prostate stimulation. I kind of think about it like a "guy's g-spot" equivalent. If he's not turned on by guys he's straight. You don't have to be gay to like it. Some men like it, some don't. My DH is one of the "don't"s, which is cool for me although I like to tease around with his tush. Since you know he enjoys it, you might try helping him. Don't know if you do oral or not, but it would probably be a huge turn-on for him to receive oral and have you manually stimulate his prostate. Would be the same as doing clitoral stimulation on yourself and using g-spot stimulation at the same time. If you're not into doing it manually, there are apparently little toys you can purchase just for that kind of thing. It all depends on what your comfort level is in doing this with him.
HTH
Sallie
You say your b/f "admitted" it.....like it's something to be ashamed of! It's NOT!
Anal stimulation has NOTHING to do with being gay! He's massaging his prostate, which for some men adds pleasure to their ejaculation. You could do the same for him, either anally, or at the perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus) while you're giving him oral or manual stimulation.
He could do the same for you.....some women enjoy it too......The only thing is, if he does it, he can't go near your vagina with his hand until he's washed it thoroughly....anal bacteria in the vagina can give you an infection.
Edited 2/8/2007 4:47 am ET by oldkinky
What it means is he gets sexual
"... instead of it being on the outside of there body ..."
Just to clarify, the male prostate (often referred to as the male g-spot) is best reached through their anus.
The female g-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina. It can be reached through the vagina.
Neither g-spot is on the outside of the body.
of course the male g-spot is the prostate gland when they hit that spot they climax like crazy