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returning the favor
| Mon, 02-12-2007 - 6:13pm |
My best friend just started dating this guy. They have known each other for a long time and have taken things slowly. Last night he gave her oral then got all in a huff about returning the favor. She hasnt been with anyone in 2 yrs and has been tested. She wants him to get tested first. He says he is clean. She knows he is trustworthy but there are diseases you can have without knowing it.I told her I think he shouldnt expect the favor to be returned regardless.WHat do you think!! Please help!!

If she wanted him to get tested, then she should have suggested they both go get tested before ever getting to the point of taking clothes off with each other. He has no more way of knowing that he's clean than she does. How would he know that she hasn't been with someone since her last test?
She also should not have accepted oral sex unless she was willing to reciprocate. She didn't make any promises, but there's a certain expectation there once she accepted him performing oral on her. It must have made him feel pretty terrible, he does oral sex on her, and then she refuses to touch him and accuses him of having diseases.