New Foreplay Trend?

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Registered: 11-12-2006
New Foreplay Trend?
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Mon, 02-12-2007 - 7:50pm

I just wanted to start a discussion on something that I've kind of been exploring with my hubby. Once in a while, I can get him to wear my undies for bedroom play!

I kind of got him to do this a while back after I encouraged him. Over the years leading up to it, he had really shown an interest in what I would be wearing to the office each day with my skirt suits. One day I just called him on the mat and told him that I wanted him to try my undies, just for the wild idea of seeing if he would actually do it for me. He was hesitant at first but after some encourgement, he actually tried them. We giggled a bit at first, but that moment turned out to be a huge turn on for us both in a forbidden kind of way. Things got pretty steamy and I ended up late for work!

Its happened again on occasion since then when I've asked him to do it and the timing was right. I think its been a great learning experience for him to be able to try some of the different textures and styles, which he seems to have really enjoyed and get turned on by. He hasn't even come close to trying all of those different panties that are out there and I think that getting him to explore this is really fun and exciting for the both of us! It also reinforced the bond of closeness between us because for some reason he says it makes him feel closer to me. Not to mention that another great thing I get out of this is being able to wear new styles of undies on a regular basis because Ive introduced him to shopping for me (sometimes we even shop together)! A few of my girlfirends have actually asked their hubbys to do this and from what I've heard, its been fun for them too! So I'm wondering if its becoming a new kinky trend for foreplay.

I just wanted to see if anyone else out there has had any expereince with this, how it got introduced into your relationship, what his reactions were and how it has worked out since. Or, if you havent had any experience with it, what your thoughts are on actually trying it.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 4:16am
No not a new trend did this for years, with ex dw, new dw not into it, happy to see that some still are, thanks enjoyed the post! Nice to know I'm not by myself on this!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 1:12pm

It's not a new trend,


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Registered: 11-12-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 8:15pm
Oh I know that guys have done it for years. But the trend I was talking about is more along the lines of women introducing the idea of their guy wearing panties like I did. Thats what I was trying to get everyones thoughts on.
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Registered: 12-28-2006
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 2:34pm
I would go for it but the dw would never and I know not to ask her
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Registered: 01-27-2007
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 4:37pm

Wow, just when you think you have heard it all, you read something new that surprises. Obviously, I have heard of guys trying on women's underwear. However, it is not for me. I can't imagine doing it. I just don't see how it is remotely a turn on for either sex. Do most men even fit into their wives undies? I have heard of guys sniffing them or masturbating into them but again, not my thing either.

It is fascinating how our brains work. What makes a guy get excited about this? I am sure many women would freak if they came home and saw their husband in their undies.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 6:49pm
I guess I`m missing something here. There is some turn on by wearing a womans panties?....lol
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Registered: 11-12-2006
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 8:27pm
Its really the thrill of the forbidden that gets my hubby going when I ask him to do it. And yes, if you have him getting into the right undies, they will fit (Victorias Secret Second Skin Satin briefs work fine). This is really something that has to be introduced by the woman as part of bedroom fun as opposed to her finding out about him doing it on his own though.
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Registered: 10-30-2003
Sat, 02-17-2007 - 8:39pm

Hello Melissa,

I get more turned on when underwear of any kind is NOT in the picture at all! On her or me either one!!LOL

But if it floats your boat go for it and make that boat rock!!!LOL