masturbation

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Registered: 05-15-2003
masturbation
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Wed, 02-14-2007 - 10:48am
Ok I don't know if you would call it masturbation or not. I love to give my dh a hand job, then let him finish while I watch. I will sometimes play with his balls at the same time. But I'm definately playing with my clit. I love watching him jerk off. Now is this weird or what? Does anyone else do that?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: mythreemz
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 1:16pm

No, it's not weird, and yes, millions of people do things like that. It's called manual sex or a hand-job, mutual masturbation, mutual pleasure. It's part of foreplay. Some people do it orally. You could also teach HIM to stimulate your clitoris while you're taking care of him.....either manually or orally.

Sex is all about mutual pleasure....and whatever two people do that gives THEM pleasure is normal and not weird for them. Someone else might think it's weird....but they're not you....don't concern yourself with anyone else and what they do. As long as you're both enjoying what you're doing......go for it.

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Registered: 12-28-2006
In reply to: mythreemz
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 2:30pm

just a different form of masturbation usally referred to as mutual masturbation. Here is a def from encarta

to give oneself or somebody else sexual pleasure by stroking the genitals, usually to orgasm

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: mythreemz
Wed, 02-14-2007 - 6:18pm
No, not weird at all.

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Registered: 03-12-2006
In reply to: mythreemz
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 3:59am
no not weird, my DH loves morning sex, I love lying with my head on his chest watching him make himself come, I find it very sexy and erotic.

 

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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: mythreemz
Thu, 02-15-2007 - 6:19am
DW and I always do mutual masturbation during foreplay while watching a group sex DVD. Usually we cum from either intercourse or oral, but sometimes we cum from masturbation.I love to watch her cum using a dildo and she loves to see me cum on her boobs.