Painful Sex!

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Registered: 11-13-2006
Painful Sex!
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Thu, 02-22-2007 - 1:53am

I am very sexually active with my fiancee and sex was always an enjoyable experience for both of us. Yet over the course of the last couple of months sex has become very painful during penetration and a little bit afterwards. Yet, once we get going the pain tends to go away. I have never experience painful sex before with him nor any guy before him. I am extremly worried that there might be something wrong with me and dont know what to do. It has become a big problem for me, but my partner doesnt seem to mind. He just remains open minded and trys his best not to make it too painful when penetrating me. The pain is as soon as his head enters, and it feels like I am clamping down and not allowing him easy entrance, it feels tight and unbearable ( I often push him off) then when the pain goes away I get a sharp feeling in the same spot everytime that lasts a few mintues (eventually goes away too). We have tried intense foreplay hoping that it would better arouse and lengthen me but it doesnt seem to help the pain and we have use personal lubrication incase I wasnt producing enough myself (the pill side effect)yet that doesnt help as well. So...if anyone can offer suggesstions as to what is wrong with me and how to help I am all Ears and Eyes.

Thank You

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: truredd
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 7:52am

See your gynecologist and tell him/her exactly what is going on.


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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: truredd
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 9:49am
Pain is your body's way of telling you something is wrong. See your GYN and find out what's going on.
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Registered: 12-19-2006
In reply to: truredd
Thu, 02-22-2007 - 2:52pm
You have tried all of the normal ways to avoid possible pain, so i would say it's time to see the doctor. Be sure to tell them everything.