Is it normal?????

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-01-2007
Is it normal?????
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Thu, 03-01-2007 - 1:57pm
Hi I'm new 2 this site, I have a question and I hope someone might have an answer. I've been married for 13 years 2 my hight school sweetheart. For a while now (few years) when we have sex when he's about to come it hurts me. It's not a horrible pain but it does bother me and I have asked him to hurry and finish because it hurts. What could it B? Any suggestions or ideas as 2 what might B causing this. It doesn't matter what position we're in it's always right before he's about 2 come. Is it normal? Thanks
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Registered: 02-09-2007
Thu, 03-01-2007 - 2:23pm

Could be many things...

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 03-02-2007 - 12:02am

There's really nothing about him before he ejaculated that could cause you pain.....except if he's thrusting really hard, and he's hitting your cervix. THAT can hurt. Ask him not to thrust so hard at that point, or close your legs so he can't go so deeply.

If you had endometriosis, it might hurt, but it would have nothing to do with the timing, it would hurt from beginning to end.

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Registered: 12-19-2006
Fri, 03-02-2007 - 11:19am
You say that it doesn't matter what position you are in, but there is no physical difference that would explain why at that particular time you would feel pain as opposed to any other time. There must be something he is doing different at that time. Where are you experiencing the pain? Perhaps he puts more of his weight on you or perhaps he pushes deeper and hits your cervix.