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Good Sun Tans
| Fri, 03-02-2007 - 12:40pm |
Well winter is almost over and it's getting time for those warm weather vacations. Time for swimsuits and tans. My wife and I are taking a beach vacation where topless sunbathing is popular. At home my wife is very conservative, no one would know she has another side. When we go on vacation she really loosens up, she enjoys sunning without her top (I love it too!)and our sex life improves dramatically.
These questions are for the women. Do you act differently when you go on vacation without the kids? Would/do you like to sunbathe topless? Is the sex better on vacation? What do you do on vacation that you don't do at home?
Can't wait until we leave!

Do you act differently when you go on vacation without the kids? YES
Would/do you like to sunbathe topless? I have done this in the islands, and I do it in my backyard (when the kids are not home). It's very exciting on a topless beach. In my backyard, I would just laugh if someone peaked through the fence to see me, but I do wonder about the planes that fly over. I always think of my flights over Texas, and I'm sitting on the plane thinking "gee, every other house seems to have a pool". Now that I live in Florida, and every other house seems to have a pool, and there is an airport nearby, and we are on a coastal flight path, hmmmmm, I wonder what those in flight are thinking or seeing as they pass over when I'm bathing by the pool!
Is the sex better on vacation? Hmmmm, I previously would have answered yes to this, if it was a vacation without kids, or at least the availability for new opportunities. Most of the vacations that we go on include other people (kids and more), so it doesn't always improve our sex habits. It is exciting to try to find a way to sneak off and have sex with so many people around, so it is exciting from that point, but often we go "sexless" during our family vacations :( But, the weekends (rare) that we get to sneak off without kids, the sex is definitely HOT. We do things like go commando to dinner, and one time I gave my DH a hand job in a parking lot while I was talking to my mom on the phone (LOL)! It's like we spend most of our vacation just making ourselves totally available to the other partner. Our kids are a little older now and it has made it easier for us to have alone time without having to leave our home. Also, we moved to Florida a couple of years ago -- and the outdoor opportunities are nearly endless! It's a 20 minute drive to the beach, we have a pool and spa in our back yard (which is fenced), and we usually have a day to ourselves every week because my husband has a rotating work schedule. Being able to be more relaxed and have more time to connect as a couple, has made a huge improvement in our sex life, and my libido has reawakened after years of being trapped in "mommyhood". All of those things combined, our sex life is over the top right at home!
What do you do on vacation that you don't do at home?
Sleep a lot!!!! That's something we don't get the opportunity to do at home.
Vacations are great for the two of us, my wife ismuch more relaxed, really a different person. We have sex twice a day instead of twice a week. My wife is much more active and responsive. She goes braless out to dinner if her top is not too revealing and if it is she wears her "vacation" bras, very very sheer. We usually trim/shave her pubic area, she won't go totally bear but close. We really pay more attention to each other and it brings us closer.
I hate getting on the plane to go home because I can see the transformation already occuring, back to the normal, conservative, responsibile person. It's too bad we can't bring the vacation attitude home.
What do others do enjoy their vacations?