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High and Low Peaks
| Tue, 03-06-2007 - 5:14pm |
My husband and I are wierd I think (lol). When I have a really high sex drive, he doesnt. Then when mine goes away, he has his and so forth. It's rare if we have a high sex drive at the same time. What gives? Is anyone else like this?

Though I've never been in a relationship where it's very extreme, I have gone through times when my partner and I are turned on at different times. I guess it all depends on how much the person who isn't feeling frisky is willing to give it the old college try.
Have the one feeling sexy do whatever turns the other one on the most and try to get them in the mood until things get better and you are more in sync.
I'm not sure if it still exists, but there used to be a message board on iVillage called Mismatched Libidos. Perhaps if it is still around, you could receive some good advice there. You might also want to consider a sex therapist or marriage counselor, as this can sometimes indicate other underlying issues.
PS: Don't call yourself 'weird.' This is a more common issue than you might think.