how thick do you like the penise

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Registered: 06-25-2004
how thick do you like the penise
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Tue, 03-06-2007 - 6:10pm
hi plss wats your opinion./.. when a guy is having sex... is the lubricated vagina supposed to grip(squees the penis tight or will the man just glide in and out without a tight grip ... just feel that his penise is lightly wraped by the vagina (i dont mean the guy wont feel sensation but is the average vagina gonna squeezz a 5inch girth tight.)
and also how much of fullness does an average vagina get from a 5inch gith penetration (please just explain and dont try to say its the way the guy works with it that matters)thanks
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 12:04am

A "normal" vagina is lined with "involuntary" muscles. That means that you have no control over the muscles. When not "in use" your vaginal muscles are closed tight. When properly aroused, they relax, and they relax only as much as is needed to envelop a penis of any size. Vaginas don't "squeeze" the penis, they just open enough to allow it to enter, and the man gets his pleasure from the friction, not from being squeezed. The vagina will be "full" with any sized penis.

If you're thinking about "squeezing", you're thinking about the PC muscle, which is at the opening of the vagina, and can be controlled by practicing the Kegel exercises.

In addition to being involuntary, there are virtually no nerve endings inside the vagina, with the exception of the "g" spot. There is almost no feeling inside the vagina. That's because a woman's vagina is NOT her primary sex organ, the clitoris is, along with the brain. A woman's arousal and orgasms originate in the clitoris, not the vagina. The majority (about 80+%) of women don't have vaginal orgasms, unless they're getting clitoral stimulation at the same time.

There are "size queens" but for most women size doesn't matter.....it's what goes on before intercourse that gets women aroused and orgasmic.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Wed, 03-07-2007 - 3:03pm
My most recent boyfriends had about the same length ones but the previous one was 6" around, with a very large head on the end, and the current one is about 4" around, with a very small pointy head on it. I don't think it makes any difference as far as the pressure on it inside the vagina. It feels a little different inside me but both were good. But it is far, far, far easier to do oral sex on the current more slender one than the previous guy's. I mean it was bigger than my wrist, and it proved very difficult to get all of my teeth out of the way. 5" is probaby a happy medium.