my boyfriend wont have sex with me

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Registered: 03-09-2007
my boyfriend wont have sex with me
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Fri, 03-09-2007 - 12:16am
my boy friend and i have been dating for about a year and a half on and off we had a good sex life before we broke up last time he always wanted to tuch me he would always want to have sex he would stare at me when i was getting dressed... then we broke up... and we got back together... now i am lucky if i get sex once a month (this has beeen going on for almost 4 months)... he doesnt look at me anymore or touch me the way he used to... he jerks off more then he has sex with me... we just went on vacation together and he didnt even bring any condoms (he wont have sex with out one) i dont know what to do... i feel like i have tried everything... i mean is he cheating on me... is he not attracted to me anymore? i dont know what it is and everytime i ask him he just says he is too tired or he just doesnt feel like it
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 1:49am

Before you broke up last time? How many times have you broken up? Maybe he's just tired of the on again off again relationship! Why do you break up, and do you deal with whatever the problems are/were before you get back together again?

It sounds like you two don't talk to each other, and if you want to have a relationship, then you have to communicate. You'll have to ASK him why he's acting this way. It's called communication.

Or, maybe it's just time to break up for good.

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Registered: 03-09-2007
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 3:05am

we have broken up a total of 3 times we always break up bc we fight and the stress of it all just gets to me... and him but then we can never stay broken up it is like an addiction for both of us

and on the communication part we do talk... or atleast i try to talk about the situation and he blows it off i am starting to think i need to just break it off for good!!!! when we got back together this last time we both agreed that if we broke up one more time that that would be it... bc i am tired of the on again off again stuff!!!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 03-09-2007 - 8:24am

In 18 months you've broken off 3 times, not a very good record.


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