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| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 2:44pm |
I am a little embarrassed to be asking about this....but I have to. My boyfriend and I have anal sex quite often, I would say 50% of the time and we have sex itleast once everyday. Sometimes when we have anal sex....when he pulls out there is **poop** on his manhood...and a little is around my back end. Now when we watch porn together and they have anal sex....I never see that. Is it just me or does this happen with a lot of women?

I watched this show called Seymore Butts, he's a porn producer, and its like a documentary on what goes into watching a porn. One of the shows he was setting up an anal sex scene and the girl chosen went to the bathroom with an enema kit (it looked like a douche bottle) to clean up before the shot.
Porn is just an exagerated fantasy land where Poop doesn't seem to exisit. If you don't like the idea of the mess, then you can try the douche bottle enema, I suppose (look it up, talk to your doctor - im no expert for sure!) but it seems like you and your husband are very close to one another and I'm sure he doesn't mind a little mess for the pleasure you both recieve from anal.
Personally, I can't get over the pain of anal sex even though my bf wants it almost all the time. When I try, it just hurts too much! Any tips?
Well, you know what your anus is for, and you know what's inside it. If it doesn't bother your b/f, don't let it bother you.
You could do an enema first, but they're messy, and take time....which would be kind of a point killer. It's also a bad practice, because it can mess up your body's routine.
You can try to move your bowels before sex, but that can't always be done "on command"...and besides, your intestines are constantly producing feces, and they're constantly moving downward, so within a few minutes, there'll be more there.
What happens in porn is NOT real life. What happens in porn is choreographed and orchestrated, real life isn't.
I think most women who have a pleasurable experience during anal sex quickly get over the feelings of being turned off by it. My DH has never tried anal sex because he is turned off by it -- but in other relationships, I have had anal sex. It produces very intense orgasms and is very pleasurable. But, I do think it is important that you are ready to experience it and feel completely comfortable with (and trusting of) your partner.
My DH is trying to warm up to the idea. I don't think I would ever want anal sex all of the time, but I will definitely be ready when he is!