My H won't tell me..

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Registered: 07-08-2004
My H won't tell me..
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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 3:35pm

I was talking to my H about the topic that was on here I believe about strap on's. I personally wouldn't want to try it but hey if my H does then I will at least try it for him. I wasn't suggesting, I was just telling him about what was said here. He said that he doesn't think he would like that and I agreed. We are open about what we like and don't like, at least I thought. I am not against trying anything, like I said before, if my H wants to try it then I will.. if I don't like it I will tell him.

So anyways today he texts me and says, "I want you to go to the locked door (a naughty shop around here we go to on occassion) and pick up ANYTHING you want to. Anything you think I would like to try.. no boundries..."

Umm I dont' know what he wants me to get.. I am sick and didn't feel like going..

Any suggestions? BTW I asked him to go and he said no.. hmm




Edited 8/22/2007 3:36 pm ET by lbcline

 

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 08-22-2007 - 4:00pm

Welcome to the board lbcline. Are you wondering if he is trying in a backwards way to have you try the strap on?

Not really knowing you or your DH, or much about your sexual explorations, I think it's difficult to give advice on a toy. Do you already use toys? Are either or both of you into anal play? Do you enjoy watching porn together? Are you into whips and chains? There are just so many choices.

Personally, I think when you get there, you'll find something while you're looking around that piques your interest.



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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 4:20pm

I agree with Misty.

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 4:42pm

This is the first I have posted, but I am going to go on a hunch here, and say, you probably haven't done anal? and he wants too.

Just a guess, you think you know someone, and then bam, they wanna try something new, and are afraid to ask. I would go for it! Good luck and have fun!

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 5:24pm
Welcome to the board fiestyladyd. Thanks for joining in.


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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 8:48pm
Yeah, hard to say without knowing your background. Do you feel he was hinting at you to get something specific or is that something he usually says? Maybe the conversation got him curious about it. If he said and meant "no boundaries," maybe he's just giving you an opportunity to try out something new?

 

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 8:48pm
LOL Tish, you were my first thought when I read this!

 

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Wed, 08-22-2007 - 9:15pm

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